You asking me to be an ally is comparable to
Me asking you to accept Jesus into your life.
Just no thank you. I do not wish to support your cult.
I do not care if you are gay. Good for you, if you are. I hope you have fun and enjoy life. If you think you need my approval or me to be an ally that is a you problem.
LGBTQ as a political ideology is extremely toxic victim identity politics. It is an alliance of supposedly marginalized victim groups. It is explicitly divisive as it pits these victim groups against normal people and it is explicitly sexual as it all about who you have sex with.
Then they demand special trans rights and nonsense. You do not deserve special rights. You deserve the same rights everyone else. And you already have that. You are free to have sex with any consenting adult just like everyone else and enter into a civil union to simulate being married.
So what more do you want?
I am not joining your cult.
No you cannot groom kids, as your ideology is explicitly sexual, you should leave kids out of it.