Your first time

CrazYmonkeY159 said:
Plett Rage, some years ago.

Go out have a blast, me and my close mate find two girls, who are more plastered than we are, we are acquaintances but nothing more.

Night ends, we get a cab back to our resort/timeshare/house/complex thingy, and to our surprise the two girls we just met at the club also stay there, so we get a cab back together. we decided to have post-drinks, we went skinny dipping in the pool, security guards heard noise in the pool "no swimming at night" is one of the rules there. anyways we run back with towels around us back to my place, my mate chunders and passes out, so its me and 2 girls. we just talk talk talk and before you know it one of them is completely naked, and the other only has her panties on, did justice to one of the females, the other one just sorta "watched" we then passed out all three of us in a bed and woke up with our "WTF just happened" faces on.

needless to say my mate who chundered out the previous night wasnt too happy the morning after.

PS. also not to say that i regret it, but it kinda sucks that i cant remember it much. :/
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Pics or it didn't happen ;)

Hehehe, well done buddy. My story was a lot less exciting.
 
Are you supposed to remember your first time? :confused: I think I remember who it was with... just can't remember when it happened
 
Wonderful twins. Shaped like goddesses and beautiful as hell. They were bored, I had time..... Was the most fun I have ever had (I learned much that day) ;)

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I second your second second.

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Johnone said:
Sounds like dumb reasoning. What does 'sexually incompatible' exactly mean. Did you win the first time you play chess? Did you practice to become better?

Living and sleeping together before marriage is also a sure way of destroying the relationship.
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Ever found someone who just doesnt like the same movies that you do? Or the same food? Or understand the same humour?
Sex can be like that, you can have great sex with other people, but the two of you jsut dont do it for each other in the bedroom or its just not compatible.
Sure, you can get better, but sometimes it just doesnt work.

What is your logic for why it ruins a marriage? Because it takes the excitement away? makes it less special? That only lasts a short while anyways, then you are left with exactly the same situation you have as if yuo have had sex before marriage.

you are outdated in your ways and I hope if you have kids you dont force such primitive values on them
 
I lied by saying that I wasn't a virgin, because I was afraid that by being a virgin, it could scare her away and I would not get a chance again..

It lasted about 2 and a half minutes...
The first thing she said after I was done was "seriously?"

Word's cannot describe how embarrassed and **** I felt afterwards :o
 
Due to various reasons which will never be discussed on any type of forum, this is the one I consider correct and acceptable for the purposes of this thread. :D

Right, my story goes as follows...

We (family) were having a bit of a function at home. Naturally, I'd invited a lass I'd been 'seeing' for a short while to come over.

It didn't take long for that 'new' enthusiasm to kick in, so we retired to my little enclave and blocked out the undesirable audience. The deed...was a greatly extended one, and the first of many that evening. We 'rose' at about lunchtime the following day to raised eyebrows and the odd chirp.

I should also point out that the lass in question was a s*x-deprived recently divorced very eager woman 10 years my senior. :D

Whilst it was fun, experience has long-since proven that was pretty low on the experience level. Teeheehee.
 
burden said:
I lied by saying that I wasn't a virgin, because I was afraid that by being a virgin, it could scare her away and I would not get a chance again..

It lasted about 2 and a half minutes...
The first thing she said after I was done was "seriously?"

Word's cannot describe how embarrassed and **** I felt afterwards :o
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Don't be so hasty in your hesitance...

If you are suitably young and your riding partner is some years your senior, it is pretty easy to portray the scenario as one big compliment to them. ;) Use it to your advantage. :D
 
Had my 1st with the person i had my 2nd, 3rd, 4th........100th.....9999th etc etc etc.
I know it might sound silly and "outdated" to you, but its very special to us.

We can can talk about that first time whenever we like :)
 
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Vegeta said:
Had my 1st with the person i had my 2nd, 3rd, 4th........100th.....9999th etc etc etc.
I know it might sound silly and "outdated" to you, but its very special to us.

We can can talk about that first time whenever we like :)
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I wouldn't call it outdated or silly, I'd call it bloody lucky. Unfortunately most of us have to deal with trial and error for many years first.
 
phaktza said:
I wouldn't call it outdated or silly, I'd call it bloody lucky. Unfortunately most of us have to deal with trial and error for many years first.
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Agree wholeheartedly! Pure luck, that's why I don't play the lotto I've used up all my luck already.


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MickeyD said:
BS.
Prove it.
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if A is sex before marriage; and B is living together and C is destruction of marriage, then A+B does not necessarily equal C. But it might. There's probably no way of proving cause and effect so all evidence is anecdotal.

So I don't have prove. (Sorry for my incorrect use of language).

But (and this is where you'll have to listen), human being are creatures of habit. Commit sex outside of marriage, then when your in one it will be hard to resist to have sex outside of marriage. I might be wrong, but now you have a opportunity to prove me wrong.
 
:wtf:

So... people who never had sex before marriage don't get divorced?

What BS.
 
Johnone said:
if A is sex before marriage; and B is living together and C is destruction of marriage, then A+B does not necessarily equal C. But it might. There's probably no way of proving cause and effect so all evidence is anecdotal.

So I don't have prove. (Sorry for my incorrect use of language).

But (and this is where you'll have to listen), human being are creatures of habit. Commit sex outside of marriage, then when your in one it will be hard to resist to have sex outside of marriage. I might be wrong, but now you have a opportunity to prove me wrong.
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ur logic is idiotic. But ok, off the top of my head...
If i have sex outside of marriage, but with the same person 3 times a week for 3 years. Then get married, if i am a creature of habit as you say, then surely I would still have sex with the same person as I have been doing for the past 3 years?

There...proven using your logic.
 
tau1z said:
Ever found someone who just doesnt like the same movies that you do? Or the same food? Or understand the same humour?
Sex can be like that, you can have great sex with other people, but the two of you jsut dont do it for each other in the bedroom or its just not compatible.
Sure, you can get better, but sometimes it just doesnt work.

What is your logic for why it ruins a marriage? Because it takes the excitement away? makes it less special? That only lasts a short while anyways, then you are left with exactly the same situation you have as if yuo have had sex before marriage.

you are outdated in your ways and I hope if you have kids you dont force such primitive values on them
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Since when is sex foundational for marriage. Shouldn't, ideally, sex flow out of love and commitment. Doesn't love and commitment spell marriage?

And what is this talk about compatibility again? So you're thinking like a guy and sex is pure physical for you? If sex then is just a physical excitement then why the need for compatibilty? A man can have sex with any woman and enjoy himself. A woman, on the other hand, can speak about compatibility, cause sex for woman is an expression of love and trust and commitment. Woman in general tend to commit to only one partner: Mr Compatible.

Sexual desire dwindles over time anyways. So stating that sleeping together before marriage to make the marriage work is fallacious. Tell me your views. What is the foundation for marriage according to you?

You may insult me by calling my view outdated and primitive, but what other option do you suggest? Would you teach your kids to sleep around until they find a sexual match before they get married? Would you recommend your daughter to live with several men before she spots Mr Right? Do you teach and enforce sexual promiscuity on your kids - knowing diseases such as HIV/Aids exist?

My views me be outdated and primitive in your eyes, but yours are barbaric in mine.
 
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