Ya boi needs some advice...

Agent67 said:
Ok, so I asked on Thursday. Said she was getting sick (she did go to the doctor in the week), wanted to play it safe, so she wanted to take a raincheck on it.

I tried at least, but I can't shake the odd feeling I was let down easy.
But I realised that I can't go on trying to connect with someone who's on and off constantly. It's like if I get closer she pulls away, and if I pull away she might do something low effort. And what's worse is, it's not like I mean nothing to her, I mean if I did, why do anything I mentioned in the OP then?

Now, will I be a **** to her at work? No, of course not.
But am I still gonna go the extra mile to reach out? Also no.
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If she was sick and she's still interested then she can do the 'so about that coffee' thing. It seldom hurts to ask - if she says yes it's cool, if she says no it's also cool because you've at least learned that she's not interested. And life goes on.
 
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saor said:
If she was sick and she's still interested then she can do the 'so about that coffee' thing. It seldom hurts to ask - if she says says it's cool, if she says no it's also cool because you've at least learned that she's not interested. And life goes on.
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Yeah, I'm gonna keep an eye out for the week after Easter (I suggested we could do it on that Friday then, we're both off that afternoon).

But I won't bring it up again of course. If she does bring it up then, yay. If not, then I got my answer.
 
Agent67 said:
Ok, so I asked on Thursday. Said she was getting sick (she did go to the doctor in the week), wanted to play it safe, so she wanted to take a raincheck on it.

I tried at least, but I can't shake the odd feeling I was let down easy.
But I realised that I can't go on trying to connect with someone who's on and off constantly. It's like if I get closer she pulls away, and if I pull away she might do something low effort. And what's worse is, it's not like I mean nothing to her, I mean if I did, why do anything I mentioned in the OP then?

Now, will I be a **** to her at work? No, of course not.
But am I still gonna go the extra mile to reach out? Also no.
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The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.. ;)
 
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ok so i am just here to see what she looks like, 7 pages later i could not wait anymore so asked AI for a photo of a hot office girl.
So for the remainder of this threat I will imagine this image. ( i did confirm the correct amount of fingers for a ai girl)
 
SauRoNZA said:
Where does this narrative that you’ll need to find a new job if it doesn’t work out come from?

Are you all children?

If you are an adult and can behave like one this is simply not a concern on any level.

But then I’m also that person who has a reasonable relationship with all of my exes which most men seem incapable of doing for some reason.
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Because if he is misreading this situation she can file sexual harassment charges, or if he handles it the wrong way. No way it is worth it. There's enough women in the world, you don't have to take one in your workplace.
 
Many years ago (first job) I took a girl out for coffee. I was single and I whacked off to thoughts of her anyway, so thought I could get somewhere.

All she talked about was karate and spirituality bullshit.

I still don't know how my colleagues found out, but boy did they let me have it.

This thread made me Facebook-stalk her and holy mother of God! Don't know how I missed those crazy eyes.
 
qscwbt said:
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ok so i am just here to see what she looks like, 7 pages later i could not wait anymore so asked AI for a photo of a hot office girl.
So for the remainder of this threat I will imagine this image. ( i did confirm the correct amount of fingers for a ai girl)
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#doubt, my bet is she is slightly chubby, plain looking and a bit geeky.
 
Craig_ said:
Because if he is misreading this situation she can file sexual harassment charges, or if he handles it the wrong way. No way it is worth it. There's enough women in the world, you don't have to take one in your workplace.
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So don’t do something that can get you nailed for sexual harassment.

If you aren’t a ********, you won’t have ******** problems.
 
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