3 Questions before long term dating

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1. Will you stay with me when I cheat on you with a 22 year old when I'm 45?
2. Will you look after me when I am drooling allover my wheelchair?
3. Do you like her, and do you feel like a threesome in about 4 hours?

That is marriage material.
 
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blunomore said:
Oh no, you don't need a defense. I didn't mean to attack you, just curious how other people think about the $$$ issue.
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Strongly!!! No matter what you look like how much fun we have or how many soulfull conversations we had, if you can not support yourself live with your mother and can not keep a job, go play in the traffic, or lets be Fsck buddies, cause you are going to be a sponge...and i'm not you mother.:eek:
 
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I never used to believe it, but money is a huge issue - in my relationship anyway. It could quite easily destroy a relationship.

I was too scared to bring up the 'm' word in outr house ;)
 
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Mila said:
Strongly!!! No matter what you look like how much fun we have or how many soulfull conversations we had, if you can not support yourself live with your mother and can not keep a job, go play in the traffic, or lets be Fsck buddies, cause you are going to be a sponge...and i'm not you mother.:eek:
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Fsck buddies sounds fine to me.
 
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Is it just me, or are 90% of the women here really hard feminst types?
 
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Dolby said:
Is it just me, or are 90% of the women here really hard feminst types?
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Nope have just been abused stalked and skrewed through the ears by men....


Not saying all men are like that i just know if i do not stick to the rules i'll pick the idiot again. So now i have a check list.
 
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Well I suppose the ears provide a natural form of wax lubrication. :sick:
 
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Dolby said:
If you could ask your potential SO (that's significant other ...) 3 questions to judge if you'd marry or have a long term relationship with them, what would they be ... ?

I'd probably ask :

How many boyfriends have you cheated on?
How many boyfriends have you had?
What's your longest relationship?

That way I could determine if she dates/sleeps around for the hell of it, or whether there'd actually be a chance for us and something meanful down the line.
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I wouldn't ask any of those questions purely because:

everyone has at some point in their life cheated
the more you date the better chance in finding "the one"
length of relationship has nothing to do with committment or indication thereof

3 questions I would ask:

Are you willing to work at a relationship instead of just jumping on the next guy that makes you feel the same way I do right now when that feeling stops for a brief moment making you doubt?

Would you say being honest and open about your feelings and intentions are something you do most of the time? (Women almost never think being honest is the best way in dealing with something that *might* hurt you, so this is just a fake-ish question I'd throw in)

Can you cook?


The first question is the only question I need to ask. I highly doubt because of question #2 that, in the beginning of a relationship, she'll admit to as anything else (just cause she wants to be with you so bad it hurts)

Actions speak louder than words and is something I will evaluate when considering her honesty in these questions. That's the fun part of getting to know each other...
 
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Mila said:
How much do you earn
How much do you owe
How long have you been with this work and the previous one.

( I paid enough cars and stuff for ex's that lived above their means)
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Can I be your soon to be ex?

I need my car paid off :p
 
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