A Virgin again.

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Mephisto_Helix

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A friend of mine hasn't had any sex by choice for about 9 years now. And no, he aint an ugly a$$ ..... he is actually a huge hit wif der ladies. It wasn't a religious decision either, he just decided he was going to wait until he got married .... end of story. And in his eyes, he considers himself a virgin.

So .............. do you think it's possible to be able to call yourself a virgin again if you abstain for a long while? This is just for the guys obviously. And if so, what period would constitute it?
 
Yes it is possible - he is most certainly a virgin again as the next time he has sex will be the most nerve-wracking, exciting and pleasurable 30 seconds of his life!

Apart from religious reasons, why would someone choose not to have sex before marriage!

As for the time-frame. I reckon 6 months without it is enough. But then again, I cant go a week without it so its all relative!

Actually, come to think about it, this could be a great way to pick up women! I am stealing this idea! I cant wait for my next de-virginisation now! She is going to feel so special - ha! /FK I am bad!
 
DJStealth said:
Yes it is possible - he is most certainly a virgin again as the next time he has sex will be the most nerve-wracking, exciting and pleasurable 30 seconds of his life!

Apart from religious reasons, why would someone choose not to have sex before marriage!

As for the time-frame. I reckon 6 months without it is enough. But then again, I cant go a week without it so its all relative!

Actually, come to think about it, this could be a great way to pick up women! I am stealing this idea! I cant wait for my next de-virginisation now! She is going to feel so special - ha! /FK I am bad!
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He's already had sex in the past ......
 
Mephisto_Helix said:
He's already had sex in the past ......
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Doesnt quite answer why wont have sex now! Its still pleasurable and I cant think of any non-religious reasons for no sex before marriage! You really gotta test drive before making the purchase!
 
hrm.. well there are many reasons. Maybe he had a scare [preg/desease etc] and thought ok.. i guess i will wait ?
 
you've gotta test drive the goods before hand - no use getting married for love and then having to think about someone else while you're on the job!

Know what you are getting yourself in for before hand!
If the concern is pregnancy - follow the words of Van Wilder: Don't be a fool, wrap you tool.

Hell there are FOMDOMS around as well!
The pill, blah blah blah.

EDIT:

Oh and to answer the original question - there is no having sex and then abstaining and then wanting to tag yourself as a virgin again.
Thats Jacob Zuma logic :eek: :D
You are from KZN, your friend isn't Jakes is he?
 
true.. but accidents can always happen, and usually when u least expect it :s
 
It wasn't a preggo scare ...... like me he had a gf die and after that is when he went off the sex. I can see his standpoint and in my way, I respect him for it.
 
Mephisto_Helix said:
It wasn't a preggo scare ...... like me he had a gf die and after that is when he went off the sex. I can see his standpoint and in my way, I respect him for it.
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Demmit - now the whole sad spin has to come on it :o
Sorry to hear that man.
One is then inclined to follow or rather empathise with his reasoning and respect it... BUT, yes there is a BUT!

Re: my previous post - the bride to be should still be tapped before marriage ;)
Loss of someone close is no trvial matter, although I'm trying to be lighthearted, its only because I don't wanna fill my head with sad thoughts at this time of the morning.

Respectfully enough - he should mourn, but to adjust his sex life because of the loss of his gf would not be fair to the preverbial bride to be.
I would be of the opinion that he is still hung up on the loss of the lost gf (and I'm not trying to be funny or harsh when I say that)
Thats why I'm reckoning he should go about life as per normal and though its easier said then done, when courting other women, he should try and go about things as normally as he did in the past. Thats my Dr.Phil angle on it anyway. ;)
However, I or we cannot judge the dude, if he does what he feels is right and manages to find an honest relationship which falls in line with his current belief structure - then kudos to the guy.

I'm however still of the opnion - that he should be banging up front ;)
Its only natural man :)
 
Nice response bru ........ I have spoken to him about the whole 'tapping that' of his bride when it comes to it. I think he is more waiting to find the right woman again and doesn't mean the whole 'no sex before the marriage'. I know I felt similar when my gf died .... I went off sex for about 6 months because I'm not a one night stand guy to begin with so to just go out and have sex for the sake of it didn't wash with my grief. He has obviously just taken his grief (if thats the cause) to a whole other level.
 
Well, like I said - I'm understanding and empathetic to his loss and how he is now handling the situation.

All one can do is to wish him the best and sincerely hope that he can learn to move on with his life. And...tap as much punani as he sees fit :p ;)
 
**ponder** why is it important to prior. Always wondered. -images of a vid clip i saw flash thru head, where the bride stands and pee's-
 
virgin = not had sex

u cannot consider yourself a virgin if you have put your sausage in a fish pie

maybe this guy is gay? i mean what man does not want sex?

sounds a bit gay to me, no offense intended
 
You cant un-ring that bell . . . he's celibate, not a born-again-virgin.
 
Mephisto_Helix said:
A friend of mine hasn't had any sex by choice for about 9 years now. And no, he aint an ugly a$$ ..... he is actually a huge hit wif der ladies. It wasn't a religious decision either, he just decided he was going to wait until he got married .... end of story. And in his eyes, he considers himself a virgin.

So .............. do you think it's possible to be able to call yourself a virgin again if you abstain for a long while? This is just for the guys obviously. And if so, what period would constitute it?
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nothing mentioned about being gay

of course gay's want to have sex, not with women though
 
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