Am I going to hell?

[Gazer]

There are a number of reasons why my child lives with my mother none of which are about an abdication of duty from my side. I have raised my daughter from day one until 8 December 2008. Your assumption that there has been no sacrifice on my side is just that - an assumption. The biggest sacrifice I have made for her is actually the one that has lead to her being in the Netherlands while I am still here.

Please try and get a better idea of the bigger picture before implying that I am not living up to my role as a parent.

Well sometimes it helps if you STATE the bigger picture otherwise what do you expect from the internet?

 

[superB]

Well sometimes it helps if you STATE the bigger picture otherwise what do you expect from the internet?

I hear what you are saying - and yes, it would help if I gave more detail but I'm not sure I'm comfortable talking about that stuff. The post was not about why my daughter and I are seperated - it was about family tensions and how to cope with that - and I dont think it would be appropriate to bring a whole new bag of stuff into this thread. It might get a bit derailed otherwise...