@paul5186
I've just come across your thread now. I'm sorry for what you've been through but happy to see the op is over and you're doing so well. I wish I would have seen it earlier to give you encouragement and support.
I also had "near" brain surgery with Dr Melvil some 25 years ago. He's an amazing surgeon and you were in brilliant hands.
I say "near" as I had a benign tumor on my skull. A lump formed on my hairline on my forehead 5 weeks before I was due to get married. Dr Melvil checked it out, told me not to worry about it and decided to operate after my wedding. It was actually at its biggest on my wedding day, thank goodness my hair kinda covered it.
During my honeymoon, it vanished

. I thought it was gone, but, alas, it was moving into my brain. They caught it just in time.
On the day of surgery, obviously, they had to shave my beautiful long locks in the area (my pride and joy)... I've never cried so much in my life. During surgery they removed a piece of my skull and were going to put in a metal plate to cover the hole but I was too infected. I came out looking like a monster. Swollen head, swollen eye and staples running from the top of my head, down the side. Dr Melvil told me I could come back in 6 months to have the plate inserted..... No thank you, I wasn't going through that again

, so now I have a hole in my head..... It's my party trick... Lol... I get people to stick their finger in it

but, thank goodness it's not always visible.
I'll try get a pic, but, in the meantime, I wish you a speedy recovery and just know that you're in the best hands.
/edit.... Took a pic