Are they your type?

Kitten

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You know how when you're getting to know people or having a discussion at one point or another the question "what do you look for in a partner?" will arise.

If you list all the characteristics you want in a partner, and all the traits ... does your partner have them all? have you ever come across someone who actually does, but you are not with? and are there important features you want, but overlooked to keep the current person?
 

Pitbull

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You know how when you're getting to know people or having a discussion at one point or another the question "what do you look for in a partner?" will arise.

If you list all the characteristics you want in a partner, and all the traits ... does your partner have them all? have you ever come across someone who actually does, but you are not with? and are there important features you want, but overlooked to keep the current person?

Nothing less than 60kg's
Long brown hair, green eyes

The rest I don't mind


O wait, and beautifull feet.... I'm a feet guy :eek:
 

medicnick83

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Kitten, you're posting alot in the "Health, Wealth, Leisure and Relationships" section - I think she should just be MODERATOR for this section - she owns it! :D
 

Kitten

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I don't judge my own feet ... I was standing in line at a shop with my ex, and he had to nudge me and say "would you stop looking at that womans feet already! shes going to see you stare" hehe
 

Pitbull

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I don't judge my own feet ... I was standing in line at a shop with my ex, and he had to nudge me and say "would you stop looking at that womans feet already! shes going to see you stare" hehe

lol,

No but seriously. If a woman has ugly feet no matter how hot she is..... I will not look at her again :sick:
 

eek

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I don't have a set list which I seek in a partner, I am rather open-minded and look to enjoy a person with the characteristics that they are blessed with, which makes them who they are.

Preferences though...too skinny's not really my thing! I prefer brunettes or dark hair to blonde, but I'll remain open-minded for the right person. I'm not the tallest person so a similar height or shorter...
 

CathJ

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The list is important, but not everything can be captured on a list.

So someone might fulfill every criteria on your list, but you don't click; or you do click with someone who is totally unexpected.

(That said, there are certain absolutes that are non-negotiable!)
 

Waaib

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I found it easier once I knew what I did NOT want in the person.
 

medicnick83

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I love long hair on my girl... she must have long hair... need long hair!

BRUNETTE - must be brunette.
 

Pitbull

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The list is important, but not everything can be captured on a list.

So someone might fulfill every criteria on your list, but you don't click; or you do click with someone who is totally unexpected.

(That said, there are certain absolutes that are non-negotiable!)

And they are ?
 

Surv0

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Im also very much a foot person, and hand person, these 2 attributes in my opinion say alot about a woman.

And to answer the OP Q: Ive never met somebody who is all the things im looking for... have given up trying...
 

CathJ

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And they are ?

They differ from person to person. And Waaib said, they're often things you don't want instead things you do.

For me, personally... a sense of humour is a must have. Smoker is a definite no. I'm not too worried about physical qualities, as long as I'm not embarrassed to be seen in public with the guy :D So while it may sound mean and shallow, anyone exceptionally tall or (even worse) short are an almost definite no.
 
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