Are you single?

[medicnick83]

going out and whoring yourself (like i used to do) doesnt solve anything. it actually made me feel dirty, and im a guy.

Same
But I've met some really decent girls at clubs, those that drink but don't drink to much, those who don't dress like sluts but dress really nice etc.

 

[The Cosmos]

Well I guess the title pretty much says it all. To answer yes I am, been so since I broke up a couple of months ago.

I guess I am getting tired of being single, sure had the odd fling or two since the breakup but really, I guess I feel like having a relationship again. Am I the only person who feels like this

I've been single my whole life, with flings here and there.
It's not fun....

 

[Killove]

Glad to hear you moving on man.. In my relationship it ended cause she apparently fell out of love with me.. Ok I'll stop, enough with me being emo.

Yeah I am first gonna try this blind date thing (or rather one eyed date) I have coming up in about 2 weeks or so. Will let ya know how it goes

I went on a blind date once and the girl was squint ..
I suggest some recon before going.

haha, i remember, I was dating a girl while in durban 2 years ago..
she was a bomb, and she asked if i had a friend that we could double date with. so i called my one friend and asked him to come along, which he was very hesitant to do. and I know him, he is just as superficial as me. So eventually i arrive at gateway, see my girl, and the wildebeest standing next to her.
I immediately smsd my friend the this exact message "im sorry."
He replied with "???" but he knew what I meant once he got there.

blind dates are dodge. never again!

 

[mercurial]

blind dates are dodge. never again!

Especially the ones that sound so lovely over the phone.

 

[The Cosmos]

going out and whoring yourself (like i used to do) doesnt solve anything. it actually made me feel dirty, and im a guy.

that just sounds so wrong !

 

[medicnick83]

Pictures!!!!!!!!!!!!! haha.
I have had a bad one myself, now I demand a picture and I'm not shy about it either.
However, even the bad one was okay, because she was a great person, we got along like a house on fire... we still friends now.

 

[Killove]

Especially the ones that sound so lovely over the phone.

haha that is so true. a girl once phoned me out of the blue saying shes seen me at clubs and got my number god knows where..
we were talking and i asked what she looked like and she said a lot of people say she looks like giselle bundchen (however you spell.)

I met her, and she looks like a troll (remember those toys with the hair that smelled nice?) who had a sex change.

 

[Lino]

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[mercurial]

haha that is so true. a girl once phoned me out of the blue saying shes seen me at clubs and got my number god knows where..
we were talking and i asked what she looked like and she said a lot of people say she looks like giselle bundchen (however you spell.)

I met her, and she looks like a troll (remember those toys with the hair that smelled nice?) who had a sex change.

rofl

 

[Killove]

LOL @ Wildebeest

Well this girl who I am planning to meet. I know a) she is younger than me
b) She is very keen to meet

I got her number from a friend who was thinking about meeting her, although her and I have been talking on mxit. She seems nice, but what do I do if I find out on the day of the meet that

a) She is a 50 year old
b) She is 15 years old

the correct thing to do is just stick it out and act friendly the whole time, you don't want to hurt her feelings.

If she is 50 - ask if she's rich
If she's 15 - ask when her birthday is

 

[medicnick83]

I met her, and she looks like a troll (remember those toys with the hair that smelled nice?) who had a sex change.

HAHAHAHA!!!!

 

[mercurial]

If she is 50 - ask if she's rich
If she's 15 - ask when her birthday is

roflol

 

[Jonny Two Shoes]

I reckon it's actually easy to find a partner. I was also in the same boat saying it's not so easy and everyone is always hooked up etc....

Now I actually don't care what happens and with that attitude I seem to hook up more :/
You go through your first big break up and suddenly you know that there is more to it than that, if a girl wants me for who I am then fine, if not then I couldn't care less. Since then I'm not shy, do whatever I want, join in the party more, talk to girls more openly without worry etc... hell the last party I was at I could tell from the body language from at least two girls that I could of had them without trying much.

I am a loyal guy though, will never cheat on my Girlfriend.

If you are struggling to meet someone you just have to try a little more I guess. Become more social, for instance even if someone you don't know all that well invites you to a party..just go. I went to that party not knowing a single person and knowing I would be alone...yet I joined in the party and had more fun than I have for a long time.

Oh and rejection...it will always happen, so it means little if a girl rejects you. It's useless being scared of rejection.

 

[mercurial]

Now I actually don't care what happens and with that attitude I seem to hook up more :/

Another misleading cliche IMO. Tried that too, never worked.

 

[iDenTiTy]

LOL @ Wildebeest

Well this girl who I am planning to meet. I know a) she is younger than me
b) She is very keen to meet

I got her number from a friend who was thinking about meeting her, although her and I have been talking on mxit. She seems nice, but what do I do if I find out on the day of the meet that

a) She is a 50 year old
b) She is 15 years old

or c) It's a 50 year old guy!

 

[Surv0]

Positive Energy... If you feel like you cant land a bird, or your too ugly, or watever, then you are going to have a problem finding a GF, purely because what you believe you act out...
Stop being insecure, believe u can do and have any girl and be happy with yourself... watch things change quickly...
Things happen around you according to how you feel about yourself...

 

[Lino]

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[Killove]

Another misleading cliche IMO. Tried that too, never worked.

Thats because you're doing it wrong
You can't try to not care, not caring doesnt involve any 'trying'

It just a simple realisation that you'd rather be alone than with someone who doesn't deserve you.

Once you've accepted that that other people would be lucky to be with you, you're on the right road.

Don't sell yourself short, and never settle for second best.
In your reality, you should be a god.

 

[ld13]

Ha if that happens...
*This just in* 50 Year old guy assaulted by a youngster. Reason for the assault the 50 year old is a lying, two faced pig... The youngster who's now beating up his friend who arranged the blind date could not be reached for further comment.

ROFLOL

 

[Maelly]

Am currently in a 5 year relationship (we celebrated our 5 years anniversary on the 5th of this month). I must admit that it's not easy, I cant remember how many times we broke up (though not more than 48hrs). We really compliment one another and we try to meet each other half way. I just cant imagine being single. But what matters most here is that we adore one another dearly! I just need to pop the question (but Im scared cause things tend to change after pple tie the knot). Wifey (I started calling her wifey after 2yrs of dating) has been asking me when am I gonna pop the question since 2006! She even gave me her aunt's wedding band in the same year. I gave it back after we had one of our many 24hrs break up!

But I love being in a relationship, I love doing stuff with her, shopping, cooking, cleaning, studying, watching TV, going to stadiums (soccer, cricket), man I love being in a relationship!