Are you single?

Its crap i know but seriously man dont feel bad,dont know why but in general things are more likely to go wrong when you plan it too much.just call her and say "Wanna meet for coffee tomorow" or something simple like that.That way theres no pressure as aposed to when you go out for dinner or something more like a typical date, if you both like each other you can always then take things further than just the coffee.
 
Okay didnt know that she was a school girl!ignor my previous post.think it will be best to go the whole formal date route then.Anyways goodluck,only 16 odd days to wait then:)
 
****, Linoman, real sorry to hear about your blind date gone wrong. was really looking forward to reading the details tomorrow.
Lino, seriously, don't give this girl another shot. if she was sincere, she would not have cancelled tonight using such a lame excuse. but lets assume her excuse was genuine (doubt it), then, if she was keen, she would have moved the date to tomorrow or at worst next weekend - not 16 days away!
 
Next update, she sms'ed me this evening wishing me a good night. So her and I are going to talk on the phone tomorrow for the first time. Am I being stupid?

No, but if you miss out on another girl while waiting for this one.
Then u would be.
 
You have a good point there, I'll keep this one going but if another one comes along then it will change

That's probably what she's doing, so don't feel bad.
With these mxit/online dating things, people tend to do just that.

Why? Because u can...

And don't take it personally.
 
That's probably what she's doing, so don't feel bad.
With these mxit/online dating things, people tend to do just that.

Why? Because u can...

And don't take it personally.

True. Thing is with online dating, you don't know what the person looks like, so naturally there is a hint of anxiety. Some people begin to doubt their choice etc.

Lino, if you give up (not with her per say), you give up on a chance. Try various other methods of meeting a girl (like at a sports club, or along those lines). What I'm trying to get to is that you had the figs, she didn't and thats that. Don't limit yourself ;)
 
Dont think your being stupid,**** happens.something out of her control may really have came up and thats why she canceld,give her one last chance to redeem herself.goodluck with the phonecall,dont say something stupid!:)
 
She is in school still, its a long and very complicated story

:eek: [-]cradlesnatcher[/-] :)

****, Linoman, real sorry to hear about your blind date gone wrong. was really looking forward to reading the details tomorrow.
Lino, seriously, don't give this girl another shot. if she was sincere, she would not have cancelled tonight using such a lame excuse. but lets assume her excuse was genuine (doubt it), then, if she was keen, she would have moved the date to tomorrow or at worst next weekend - not 16 days away!

Agreed, or maybe just one more. Are you his date by any chance?
 
dude maybe she was just to worried about meeting you and pulled out

if your going to date online pics of each other is essential man
 
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