Are you single?

if i'm sort of seeing someone, does that mean that im partially single still?
 
Ok, so to all the people here who are upset or sad about being single, let me make a few points...

You're free. You don't constantly have to consider the wants and needs of a partner, meaning you get to do what you want, when you want. If you don't feel like visiting person X and their smug little family, you don't have to. If you feel like ordering a pizza and not some rabbit food, you can. If you don't feel like going out, no one's forcing you to. The decisions you make are your own.

If you go out and you spot someone you take a liking to, you're free to make contact. You don't have to sit around looking after someone. Be yourself and have a blast! Call up your single buddies and go for a beer or two. I have a far better time partying with single friend than with married/dating friends.

Apart from that, if you're male, you'll be saving a lot of money. Trust me on this one.
 
Nocturnity said:
Ok, so to all the people here who are upset or sad about being single, let me make a few points...

You're free....
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Yeah, but. You have no-one to hug. You have no-one to share pizza with. You have no-one to come to who'll make you feel better when you've had a crappy day. You have no "us". You have no-one to share chores with.

Yes, there are good points :) And it does slightly worry me that I'm getting too used to all those good points, and that I'll have trouble adjusting when (if) I finally do find someone... but having someone is still way better than not.
 
CathJ said:
Yeah, but. You have no-one to hug. You have no-one to share pizza with. You have no-one to come to who'll make you feel better when you've had a crappy day. You have no "us". You have no-one to share chores with.

Yes, there are good points :) And it does slightly worry me that I'm getting too used to all those good points, and that I'll have trouble adjusting when (if) I finally do find someone... but having someone is still way better than not.
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+1
 
I'm married with a 4 month old baby. It's great, we're very happy. We complement each other well. Those who rant on about how great it is to be single have probably never been in a healthy relationship.
 
cerebus said:
I'm married with a 4 month old baby. It's great, we're very happy. We complement each other well. Those who rant on about how great it is to be single have probably never been in a healthy relationship.
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I wouldn't say my relationship was healthy - but I must admit that when it was healthy, it was amazing.

I'm a relationship person. I need the friendship, companionship and everything else that comes with a relationship. I need someone to share my little events with - someone to SMS when I'm alone or feeling crap.
 
Dolby said:
I wouldn't say my relationship was healthy - but I must admit that when it was healthy, it was amazing.

I'm a relationship person. I need the friendship, companionship and everything else that comes with a relationship. I need someone to share my little events with - someone to SMS when I'm alone or feeling crap.
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And then you also get days when you want to take a gun and shoot the person, but mostly it's great being involved :D
 
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