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Well by going your basically telling her that, so you are right. it may not be though that your not interested in her anymore, could be the other way around :). I dunno hey all i know is a strip club is major party and i might just have a few to many friends who seem to who have found women who do not mind. Mine never did and majority of my friends wife's/fiancee's are easy going. They do not take it as an insult.

Although Aeron your the first male i know to have taken that stance :).
 
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I would wonder about my guy if he did not ogle once in a while.

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Picard you baby :p, picard seems like he in need of some stripper ho's, ogle oogle depends how it cums off the tongue picard
 
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killadoob said:
Well by going your basically telling her that, so you are right. it may not be though that your not interested in her anymore, could be the other way around :). I dunno hey all i know is a strip club is major party and i might just have a few to many friends who seem to who have found women who do not mind. Mine never did and majority of my friends wife's/fiancee's are easy going. They do not take it as an insult.

Although Aeron your the first male i know to have taken that stance :).
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To each his own.

Clubs like that are so low class to me. I'd much rather hang out at other places.
 
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Yea bluno i never saw many wife's there to be honest :p, also it is not like we go 20 times a year, it is like 2 or 3 times :).
 
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Its a good fun place for boys night it's safer than the presleys of our world...
 
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Strip clubs are a tool. You use them to get the guys on the other side of the board room really drunk and really generous.

As far as I being the first male to take that stance (that you know of), I guess I must be so uptight, if you shove a lump of coal up my ass, in two weeks you have diamond! ;-). Lols. I understand women somewhat. I know how ungodly self conscious they are about their bodies, regardless of how sexy, how condfident, how old they are. And how easily they can get hurt. As such, I do everything in my power to make my girl feel great about her body. Watching porn and going to strip clubs don't help.
 
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Aeron said:
Strip clubs are a tool. You use them to get the guys on the other side of the board room really drunk and really generous.

As far as I being the first male to take that stance (that you know of), I guess I must be so uptight, if you shove a lump of coal up my ass, in two weeks you have diamond! ;-). Lols. I understand women somewhat. I know how ungodly self conscious they are about their bodies, regardless of how sexy, how condfident, how old they are. And how easily they can get hurt. As such, I do everything in my power to make my girl feel great about her body. Watching porn and going to strip clubs don't help.
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Good on you!! I feel that the poor thing has to look at me 24/7 he needs a break. But thats just me. It does not bother me. If it was a girl at work flirting or at a club.... i might be a very nasty scorpio....:D
You are right about our self image. so you are really a good man.
 
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Married men who go to strip clubs - that's just wrong. Would you like your wife to go to a gay strip club? **** no. Hypocritcal bastards.
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I've actually encouraged my wife to go to strip clubs to look at nekkid men. (She has been to a sex show in Amsterdam as well.) I'm just not jealous that way. So you can drop the righteous indignation bit.

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If you're uninterested enough in your wife to go to a strip club, unless it's "work-related" then you should get yourself a mistress.
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I would also want to know how limited contact with and watching naked women in a highly uncontrolled environment while at a friend's bachelors party is somehow more immoral than actually having sex with another woman. Can you explain that to me buddy?

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Remind your wife she no longer has the body you want by looking at porn and going to strip clubs? ****ing pathetic. Plain and simple.
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Trust me, one thing I will never do is take my wife's body and looks for granted, and she knows it. Hormonal and other changes that take place after a woman has a baby can cause their body to completely shut down sexually. I'm not claiming to be a saint, my wife knows about me going to Mavericks. She doesn't know about the private dance because telling her about it is simply going to put her under more pressure to feel sexual which is only going to leave her feeling like dirt. Yeah, it's a secret, but, without going into too much detail, that private dance did more to keep our marriage together than it did to damage it.

Young children lack the brain development to deal with
moral ambiguity. Everything has to be black and white to them. You seem to be stuck at that level of emotional development. Grow up.
 
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