Thanks Tribble, she's still coming to grips with it herself. Think it only sunk in the day after surgery. A lady did come by and speak to her and invited her to join their group of survivors and other people going through the process. My wife is still considering it.
Big thing is just how quickly things happened. Routine checkup on a Thursday, following Tuesday a biopsy, Friday after that got a call confirming the diagnosis. Following week breast surgeon and oncologist. Last week plastic surgeon and surgery.
Lesion itself was still small. Waiting to hear if any cells were found in lymph nodes. Depending on that the chemotherapy treatment changes.