lexity
Honorary Master
We are all supposed to be judges.So now you're judge and jury?
If you aren't the judge of who you associate with, who is?
Only children defer that responsibility to adults. Adults do not defer individual responsibility for making moral judgements on character,to other adults.
Even if you have a contract where you pay someone to perform a task that requires their judgement, the contract requires that you take responsibility for them not fulfilling their end of the bargain i.e. through penalty clauses.
Newsflash!!!! This is what it means to emerge from the stone-age.
That's how we ended up with a middle-class. We introduced the concept of adulthood i.e. individual responsibility for decision-making, including cultivating the ability to exercise good judgement of character.