Given how much most of us use our phone in a single day, and for how many people it’s their only camera being used to capture family moments and events, not only do I not have a problem spending R35k on an iPhone (especially with a big trade-in from the previous one) but I see it as incredible value.
For god knows how many hours in a year or two (depending on your upgrade cycle) you get arguably the best phone experience available, cameras that are starting to infringe on DSLR territory, two day battery life, iOS and so on.
I’m not defending myself so much as pointing out the absurdity in you putting down anything that is either unaffordable to you or represents too great an opportunity cost. But don’t let me stop you from slumming it with a mediocre phone that takes mediocre photos with mediocre battery life.