Closet bisexual

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Pooky said:
Doesn't it leave all these people around that you have had intimate relations with and that can be very weird? What if you get married one day and then all these people you know that you have had sex with are just there in the back of your partners head?

Perhaps it's just a mindset but I would find it hard to b okay with that.
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I'm like that as well, Pooky. I only do relationships. I don't have a huge trail of sexual partners in my past.

Some people just like to hookup and other like to be in a relationship first.

I personally want to at least know the person before anything happens.
 
Ockie said:
OH no.....the moral police have infiltrated TGay!
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I'm not making any moral judgements. I'm just trying to understand other people's outlooks. Can't we have a discussion without people jumping to the defensive?
 
Nick333 said:
Thanks dude.

I think it's a control thing. I don't like to fell dominated. It triggers a fight or flight response in me.
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hmm, that's a common misconception. The top isn't always the dominant one and vice versa.

You're both men. both can play a role. There isn't a need for one to be submissive and the other dominant.

I'm happy to be in a versatile relationship. I giveth and taketh :p
 
Pooky said:
Doesn't it leave all these people around that you have had intimate relations with and that can be very weird? What if you get married one day and then all these people you know that you have had sex with are just there in the back of your partners head?

Perhaps it's just a mindset but I would find it hard to b okay with that.
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As long as she hasn't been with 80 guys then I'm cool but seriously, if she/he picked you. Then be happy to know out of all the contestants you won.
 
Been reading this thread on and off for the passed week or so and it's really opened my eyes.
Interesting thread.
 
Pooky said:
Doesn't it leave all these people around that you have had intimate relations with and that can be very weird? What if you get married one day and then all these people you know that you have had sex with are just there in the back of your partners head?

Perhaps it's just a mindset but I would find it hard to b okay with that.
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I like to feel a connection with someone before I get naked. I think I can safely say I care about everyone I've been with. Having said that I don't see why you'd have to be in love with everyone you care about enough to be intimate with.
 
Method said:
hmm, that's a common misconception. The top isn't always the dominant one and vice versa.

You're both men. both can play a role. There isn't a need for one to be submissive and the other dominant.

I'm happy to be in a versatile relationship. I giveth and taketh :p
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Kinda agree with Nick. Not about being a bottom :p but rather a fight or flight response when a woman tries to dominate me.
/apologies if my hetro is a little OOC.
 
Pooky said:
Wow. How do you guys just have sex so casually with someone you don't even know like this?
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It's quite easy. I had no issue with it all. It was about the chase and the conquering of the prey.

BUT guess it boils down mainly to different strokes for diff folks.
 
Ockie said:
Agreed. Nothing like sitting ontop riding a guy while slapping him in the face or hitting him with a leather belt across the chest.
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LMFAO! You sound like a rough guy getting it on with rough guys :p

Pho3nix said:
Kinda agree with Nick. Not about being a bottom :p but rather a fight or flight response when a woman tries to dominate me.
/apologies if my hetro is a little OOC.
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lol, but it's got nothing to do with dominating someone, unless you're into that schit, then have fun :p

Skywalker786 said:
Okay guys I have to get some work done to day.

Chat later
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Have fun!
 
Method said:
lol, but it's got nothing to do with dominating someone, unless you're into that schit, then have fun :p
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A BJ is a mixed bag, your being held hostage by the balls but your also dominating them. Lady friend said it made her feel powerful :confused:
As for being into that schit.. *cracks whip* :D
 
Skywalker786 said:
It's quite easy. I had no issue with it all. It was about the chase and the conquering of the prey.

BUT guess it boils down mainly to different strokes for diff folks.
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Lol. After I finished him off I was thinking about how to make a graceful but speedy exit. Then driving home I was thinking I should answer more invites from guys.

He's a sweet guy and I suspect there will be rematches but, right now I'm envisioning wide new vistas.
 
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