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Nick333

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Ockie said:
Spit does dry out your lips. That is why you should not lick your lips when they are dry.

Were you nervous? This is not your first time with a guy though is it?
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It is my first one on one, full on experience. I was freaking nervous before meeting him. And a bit nervous at times after. But, otherwise like a duck to water. It was a long time coming. All, it needed was the right guy at the right time.

I hate to admit it, but I've been harbouring the irrational fear that swinging that way would magically turn me into a fairy. Blame my upbringing.
 
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Nick333 said:
It is my first one on one, full on experience. I was freaking nervous before meeting him. And a bit nervous at times after. But, otherwise like a duck to water. It was a long time coming. All, it needed was the right guy at the right time.

I hate to admit it, but I've been harbouring the irrational fear that swinging that way would magically turn me into a fairy. Blame my upbringing.
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haha, fairies are a different breed. I personally won't date or hookup with one. Just not my thing. I like men. Real men :p (no offence to any fairies)

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Haha. I thought he would be. I was actually thinking about PM'ing him then I thought feck it, I'm not going to be a closet case.
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Good! Cause I also find it very interesting and entertaining :D
 
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Nick333 said:
Thanks dude.

I think it's a control thing. I don't like to fell dominated. It triggers a fight or flight response in me.
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You should try it at least once, though. It doesn't always have to be a sub/dom thing. That way at least you can say you've tried it and if you still don't care for it, that's that. Some people just aren't meant for bottoming.

You'll never know until you've tried. You might just be missing out on the best thing since chocolate. :D

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I'm like that as well, Pooky. I only do relationships. I don't have a huge trail of sexual partners in my past.

Some people just like to hookup and other like to be in a relationship first.

I personally want to at least know the person before anything happens.
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I had more than a few random hookups after I came out and I don't care much for it, tbh. I don't need to be in a relationship or anything, but similar to you I must at least know the person first. Especially with anal sex there has to be a lot of trust and understanding involved, because it can so easily go very wrong.
 
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Zewp said:
You should try it at least once, though. It doesn't always have to be a sub/dom thing. That way at least you can say you've tried it and if you still don't care for it, that's that. Some people just aren't meant for bottoming.

You'll never know until you've tried. You might just be missing out on the best thing since chocolate. :D



I had more than a few random hookups after I came out and I don't care much for it, tbh. I don't need to be in a relationship or anything, but similar to you I must at least know the person first. Especially with anal sex there has to be a lot of trust and understanding involved, because it can so easily go very wrong.
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I know myself well enough to never say never, zewpette my love. ;)

And, ja let's just say pulling out after anal was a bit...
 
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Nick333 said:
I know myself well enough to never say never, zewpette my love. ;)

And, ja let's just say pulling out after anal was a bit...
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hahaha, that's the unfortunate reality.

As jy vir *** soek, gaan jy dit kry ;)

But you can prepare for it better to have less or even no err...markings present.
 
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