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Sorry for that, it just came all bubbly out. I know I have to see the positive in all this, but hell it's so difficult. I dont want to pin point all of this to my dad, there is many other factors as well. But hell my dad makes my life difficult.
As manager, I'm responsible for the workplace health and safety, which includes a lot of safety rules. Then I start getting it all in order, it's a big butchery, so there's a lot of dangerous machinery, and all of this takes time. Then some stupid machine breaks, and I must repair it, because its too expensive to get someone to do it, and when he managed the butchery, he did it. Then I start with the health and safety act again, then I needs to sort out something about our clocking system first, my mother just say she dont want to know how to maintain it, so I needs to do it. Then I must attend union meetings. I want to help the staff with their complaints, my dad says no, we wont, so in their eyes, I'm the pig. Then my dad needs someone to sort out an employee he doesn't like, guess who must be the pig? Then this employee resigns, and even her parents phoned me, telling me how bad person i am. I can not tell them the truth that it wasn't me, because then my dad is cross with me again, and we fight again.
This butchery also have a "kitchen department" as we call it. There they bake all kinds of lekker cakes and eats. I know that that department have much potential to grow, he says no. He always tells me how bad the butchery side of things are. If he goes on holiday, all the problems I need to sort out, is in his kitchen.
And so I can go on and on. My wife also works with me, admin department, and she also has to go through all of this.
A year ago I made my dad an offer to buy his share of the business, so he can retire. Then he went on about how I just want to force him out, and it was his dream too to have such a business, etc etc. So I am really in a catch 22 situation, and wish I had a plan. When some day he retire, I know things will change, 90 % of the employees is also behind me and my wife. Then I can get someone to help me too.
Thing is, he knows that he cant do it on his own again. He has all the experience, but never put the experience together to actually make a success. He knows all the facts and figures of this trade through the years of experience. But boy oh boy, he has too many schemes. And while I think about something over and over to know that it will works, or whatever, he just do it, stuffing up most of the times.
I tried that too before. Thing is, when he takes over again, first of all many of the key personell will leave, that I know for a fact. Then secondly he can not work with money, like originizing his financial life. So financially he will start suffering. So what will happen in the end, I wont get my money and I will be stuffed. There is also debt for the business that I also signed surety for. So I will also be nailed if he goes down.
Me and my wife have spoken about this exact same thing this weekend.
I concur.
