Dilemma

HunterNW said:
She will get laid - Why can't he be the nice guy helping her out ? I'm sure he's friend will be happy that he's keeping his wife happy.
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Yeah then she can go get the D from someone else. Op shouldn't be a part of this. The betrayal will stay with the friend for the rest of his already short lived life.
 
epah said:
Yeah then she can go get the D from someone else. Op shouldn't be a part of this. The betrayal will stay with the friend for the rest of his already short lived life.
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The friend doesn't need to know. You think he's going to be like " Hey dude, your wife is an awesome fck"
 
3WA said:
Don’t do it while the friend is still alive.

So obviously you need to off the dude.
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This has been my intention, let the dude pass in peace, then explore options. But it's been an ongoing thing for a while now. I know, that sounds awfully cruel.
 
Senor said:
And that is why I have resisted all this time. She wanted to go out a few times and I always made up some excuse.
But I'll be honest and confess that my resistance is weakening
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Devil's advocate mode activated:
1) What makes you think that you're the only one she's trying to do this with?
2) What kind of woman even thinks of this kind of thing while her husband is on his deathbed?
 
Polymathic said:
Good enough isn't something worth betraying a friend over IMO but different people see things differently
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Okay, just for clarification, from an appearance and physical attributes standpoint, she is fokken hot. But I actually like her for more than just that, she's like a genuinely caring person
 
Senor said:
So I find myself in a position that I just ca not decide what to do. I welcome any and all comments, opinions, criticism, whatever.

I'm divorced and have been single for the last 5 years. Divorced for 11 years though.

A friend of mine that I used to be quite close to years back, in that we would go out together etc, even when he met his wife, I was there and spent time with them as well.

Fast forward 15 years, the friend, whom I now rarely see or visit is quite ill, and in and out of hospital etc. His wife though has remained in contact with me almost throughout. Never forgetting birthdays and stuff.

There was this one time a few years back when she visited me at home, unexpectedly , and we ended up having wine and just kissing and touching etc.. Nothing more, clothes never came off. Never did that again or even met alone since, but remained in contact.

Now, she's totally wants to hook up, but I feel guilty about pursuing this. There's kids and a terminally ill husband involved. She's also under pressure trying to keep everything together at home.

Would I be helping her and everyone by just comforting/destressing her, or is this something that I should just stay away from. It does feel wrong to me....let that much be clear.

But damn I'm tempted...so very much.
She's like quite hot as well... Slim, tall, terrific personality...
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She's shallower than a bird bath.

Today you're the flavor of the week, tomorrow when you have problem you'll be yesterday's news. Drop her, fast.
 
Senor said:
Okay, just for clarification, from an appearance and physical attributes standpoint, she is fokken hot. But I actually like her for more than just that, she's like a genuinely caring person
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Who can't even wait for her husband she claimed to love and told she loved so much to die before banging the friend? The only thing she genuinely is is a ***NSFW**.

Nope, bye Felicia.
 
The_Ogre said:
Devil's advocate mode activated:
1) What makes you think that you're the only one she's trying to do this with?
2) What kind of woman even thinks of this kind of thing while her husband is on his deathbed?
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This is very accurate and has crossed my mind many times.
 
Senor said:
So I find myself in a position that I just ca not decide what to do. I welcome any and all comments, opinions, criticism, whatever.

I'm divorced and have been single for the last 5 years. Divorced for 11 years though.

A friend of mine that I used to be quite close to years back, in that we would go out together etc, even when he met his wife, I was there and spent time with them as well.

Fast forward 15 years, the friend, whom I now rarely see or visit is quite ill, and in and out of hospital etc. His wife though has remained in contact with me almost throughout. Never forgetting birthdays and stuff.

There was this one time a few years back when she visited me at home, unexpectedly , and we ended up having wine and just kissing and touching etc.. Nothing more, clothes never came off. Never did that again or even met alone since, but remained in contact.

Now, she's totally wants to hook up, but I feel guilty about pursuing this. There's kids and a terminally ill husband involved. She's also under pressure trying to keep everything together at home.

Would I be helping her and everyone by just comforting/destressing her, or is this something that I should just stay away from. It does feel wrong to me....let that much be clear.

But damn I'm tempted...so very much.
She's like quite hot as well... Slim, tall, terrific personality...
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Please send a picture or the link to her FB account. One needs to know for sure what she looks like to advise thoroughly. You say she looks hot, for all we know your definition of hot could be Tina Turner.
 
I don’t have bros, but I will never do a married or ‘taken’ women. I have seen houses burn.

In the case I didn't know, they say, what you don't know can't hurt you.
 
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