Dilemma

The_Ogre said:
Well, both those posts were not leaning toward the affirmative :unsure:
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:ROFL: Well, the first one was negative-affirmative. Technically, it was learning toward affirmative.

It is like he was standing at the edge and you nudged him over.
 
Cheer said:
I mean anyone is entitled to as much free sex as they can get in life, YOLO :)
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You know what comfort sex is, right? She had as many enemies as she had frenemies, she would get in bed with anyone close to you... Quite the she-devil, but the two of us got along great until the day we weren't friends any more, and it was probably for the best. Nothing bad happened, it is just that people move on and become distant. She tried to reconnect with me just before the pandemic, invited me to her birthday, but I declined and haven't heard from her since.

I know a couple of people who rebound. Yearning for the ex in a new or another person, though I have seen some healthy, but rare relationships coming from it.

People make their own decisions, but they should also live with the consequences.

I do things simple. I do me and you do you.
 
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Cheer said:
The thing is this guy's life may be near its end, he won't benefit to move on and find another person even if this lady is a serial cheater because who will want to date/hump/marry someone on their deathbed? It's sad that his life is near its end, but he is also an anchor to those that want to move on.
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We don't know much, what we do know is that the husband knows his wife is cheating every chance she gets. The OP is not interested in a long term relationship. He is more enticed by her hotness. He's divorced and been single for 5yrs, he has no interest in the baggage that comes with her, according to him he is living the life. Thats what I make of the OP. So her being a cheater plays right up his avenue. The OP doesn't trust her as he knows she is conniving, so he doesn't really see a long term relationship working.
 
Senor said:
I think lonely is not an accurate word. I have a full life, lot of friends etc. I do go meet people and... but nobody I would take to my brother's wedding. And to the guy who adked if it still works, I can arrange a demo for you.
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Okay so why dont you join a dating app and hookup there?
 
Neptuner said:
We don't know much, what we do know is that the husband knows his wife is cheating every chance she gets. The OP is not interested in a long term relationship. He is more enticed by her hotness. He's divorced and been single for 5yrs, he has no interest in the baggage that comes with her, according to him he is living the life. Thats what I make of the OP. So her being a cheater plays right up his avenue. The OP doesn't trust her as he knows she is conniving, so he doesn't really see a long term relationship working.
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Sometimes life gives you lemons, maybe it's the best he can get with his circumstances.
 
Senor said:
So I find myself in a position that I just ca not decide what to do. I welcome any and all comments, opinions, criticism, whatever.

I'm divorced and have been single for the last 5 years. Divorced for 11 years though.

A friend of mine that I used to be quite close to years back, in that we would go out together etc, even when he met his wife, I was there and spent time with them as well.

Fast forward 15 years, the friend, whom I now rarely see or visit is quite ill, and in and out of hospital etc. His wife though has remained in contact with me almost throughout. Never forgetting birthdays and stuff.

There was this one time a few years back when she visited me at home, unexpectedly , and we ended up having wine and just kissing and touching etc.. Nothing more, clothes never came off. Never did that again or even met alone since, but remained in contact.

Now, she's totally wants to hook up, but I feel guilty about pursuing this. There's kids and a terminally ill husband involved. She's also under pressure trying to keep everything together at home.

Would I be helping her and everyone by just comforting/destressing her, or is this something that I should just stay away from. It does feel wrong to me....let that much be clear.

But damn I'm tempted...so very much.
She's like quite hot as well... Slim, tall, terrific personality...
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Whats wrong with him
 
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