I can’t believe you’d even consider such a low life move on a dying man’s wife. This is pure evil. You should seek to find your integrity and honour. You should immediately end this charade. There is no future either with a conniving female like this. Find your truth. You know the answer, and you will have to explain yourself one day. There are plenty of women out there who will make your life a better one, and perhaps you’re not meeting them because you don’t respect yourself enough. Move on man.
I don't think its pure evil at all. If he was making moves on her then perhaps, but its the other way round.
Looking after a dying person drains your soul, saps every last bit of joy. This poor lady has probably been though it all, watching someone she loved die.
There is such a thing as carers fatigue, you just stop feeling for the person you are looking after and just hate them.
In a few months the guy will be dead, its no ones fault.
On the flip side - one of my wife's friends got breast cancer (30 ish) and her husband just divorced her mid chemo. She had to go live with her mother.
She survived and is still an absolute belter, the tits survived and are her best asset. Fun girl as well.
She is with one of our other friends now and living it up, he is loaded and they can basically live where ever they want.
I wouldn't say the ex is evil, he is a coward and a dumbass.
Sticking with someone is hard, I respect that. Long term its very hard and I don't judge someone who choses themself at the end.