Dilemma

[MagNorthDigital]

Hot take bump.

https://twitter.com/x/status/1592150553819324424

Well duh... You try flying around the world sitting next to that. Plus she knows how to cook.

Never spend more time with another woman, than you do with your wife. You can be Liewe Jesus himself, your wife will be green...

Women don't trust other women as far as they can throw a handbag.

 

[FiestaST]

Another tip OP.

If you are loggerheads about your decision & have to do the deed rather try this safer approach.

 

[randomcat]

a lot of people going to hell here

Heathens, I am right

I pray for them

 

[Tabac]

The very nature of marriage suggests ownership

And you won't find argument from me with His Body, His choice. Equality uber alles!

There's ZERO German DNA in your body. Take that back.

 

[TofuMofu]

There's ZERO German DNA in your body. Take that back.

I mean...I wouldn't be surprised if he has had German DNA in him before.

 

[Tabac]

I mean...I wouldn't be surprised if he has had German DNA in him before.

Now that makes sense.

 

[ShaunSA]

I mean...I wouldn't be surprised if he has had German DNA in him before.

German guys are kinky

 

[Tabac]

German guys are kinky

You had a Turkey up your but and not just a feather ?

 

[Harmonic]

The very nature of marriage suggests ownership

And you won't find argument from me with His Body, His choice. Equality uber alles!

Did it hurt when you hit your head after falling out the tree?

Marriage does not imply ownership. It implies mutual respect and commitment.

 

[ShaunSA]

Did it hurt when you hit your head after falling out the tree?

Marriage does not imply ownership. It implies mutual respect and commitment.

 

[TofuMofu]

German guys are kinky

I mean, a German guy saying he wants geschlechtsverkehr is a bit worrying, until you figure out what he actually wants

 

[animal531]

The guy stopped being your friend a long time ago.

 

[Captain-Blackadder]

No further comment from the OP?

Want to know if he tapped her and if it was worth it.

 

[skimread]

So I find myself in a position that I just ca not decide what to do. I welcome any and all comments, opinions, criticism, whatever.

I'm divorced and have been single for the last 5 years. Divorced for 11 years though.

A friend of mine that I used to be quite close to years back, in that we would go out together etc, even when he met his wife, I was there and spent time with them as well.

Fast forward 15 years, the friend, whom I now rarely see or visit is quite ill, and in and out of hospital etc. His wife though has remained in contact with me almost throughout. Never forgetting birthdays and stuff.

There was this one time a few years back when she visited me at home, unexpectedly , and we ended up having wine and just kissing and touching etc.. Nothing more, clothes never came off. Never did that again or even met alone since, but remained in contact.

Now, she's totally wants to hook up, but I feel guilty about pursuing this. There's kids and a terminally ill husband involved. She's also under pressure trying to keep everything together at home.

Would I be helping her and everyone by just comforting/destressing her, or is this something that I should just stay away from. It does feel wrong to me....let that much be clear.

But damn I'm tempted...so very much.
She's like quite hot as well... Slim, tall, terrific personality...

Men choose their partner, women chose the best option. She wants to build a connection so she has a better option when he dies

If he is not terminally ill then you have problem. Just careful she might plan to get pregnant with your kid too. If you are happy with that and sure husband is terminal then go ahead.

If you consider marriage when he passes know she will do the same thing with you if you become bedridden and try hookup with someone else

 

[Stokstert]

I mean, a German guy saying he wants geschlechtsverkehr is a bit worrying, until you figure out what he actually wants

It seems you don't know the meaning of Geschlechtsverkehr, it's not traffic related.

 

[Craig_]

Even if he wasn't it's still her body her choice

This business of men owning women's bodies needs to stop

Hey, you're gay, you don't have a say. Go choke on an overripe banana.

 

[Craig_]

German guys are kinky

Hunternw claims to be part German (the other part might have been Zulu if not for the obvious shortcomings), so you're welcome to have him.

 

[ShaunSA]

Hunternw claims to be part German (the other part might have been Zulu if not for the obvious shortcomings), so you're welcome to have him.

Well that would explain his penchant for kudus

And wtf are you afraid to tag the sob @HunterNW

 

[Craig_]

Well that would explain his penchant for kudus

And wtf are you afraid to tag the sob @HunterNW

So fcking kudu's is a german thing?

 

[Lucas Buck]

Why don't you first test the waters. Ask him jokingly, how long before or after his death should you wait to steek his wife.