Ever miss your ex?

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Compliments of the season to you all!!

I often have a dilemma of missing my ex!! Sometimes I wake up and tears fill my eyes because she just crossed my mind. When I see something that we used to laugh about, like an advert or a movie, I just get this deep intense feeling of sadness and sorrow!

I have tried to stop this for quite sometime and I would go for a week or two, and then it all comes back again. Everything I see takes me back to her. When I jump into my car I remember she would complain about stuff and go on and on and on... I remember our road trips!!

Even now I am so sad because the phone reminded me that it is her birthday today. She ended the relationship because she caught me cheating (in a way), so I can't really blame her for leaving. And she made it clear that I am a donkey! Which I accept.

Lately we started chatting and she is quite nice and less dramatic about my past indiscretions!

THE THING IS: I am very happy in my current relationship! The lady is awesome and we have a beautiful child together and we are making our wedding plans.

How do I get over missing her so much, cut her out and focus on my current relationship because the way things are going, I could be headed for a disaster of apocalyptic proportions!
 
get over your x and stop communication if you want to be happily married

right now its unfair on your future that you not giving her 100% of your love cos you cant really miss someone if you have feelings for them
 
All the time, but it gets easier. Cut her out completely, it's the only way.
 
Cut all ties, delete pics, email's. Facebook. Everything. You are on a slippery slope and your communication with your ex could jeopardize your current relationship.
 
I used to miss my ex's a very long time ago.
I then realised i only remembered the good, and forgot the bad.

I am now married and although i sometimes do think of my Ex's, its more of a curiosity kind of way, the same way i would a friend i havent seen in primary school.

Advice, forget about her and delete her numbers unless you want issues in your current relationship.

I recevied some good advice just before getting married, neither my partner nor myself should have a friend of the opposite sex unless they are friends with both of us
 
OP how long were you together? I'm fresh out of a relationship of 6 years for a couple of months now, hurts like a mofo some days, but given the choice I would not go back, still haven't deleted all her photo's though:erm:
 
Wikkels88 said:
OP how long were you together? I'm fresh out of a relationship of 6 years, hurts like a mofo some days, but given the choice I would not go back, still haven't deleted all her photo's though:erm:
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Wikkels88 said:
OP how long were you together? I'm fresh out of a relationship of 6 years, hurts like a mofo some days, but given the choice I would not go back, still haven't deleted all her photo's though:erm:
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good thinking , keep the naked ones , they make excellent revenge material
 
xrapidx said:
only some of the things she used to do :twisted: :whistle:
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wikk3d88 said:
every day, twice on sundays. Never stick your dick in crazy.
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Wikkels88 said:
OP how long were you together? I'm fresh out of a relationship of 6 years for a couple of months now, hurts like a mofo some days, but given the choice I would not go back, still haven't deleted all her photo's though:erm:
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Damn bra, Came out of a 2 year relationship and the first thing I did was delete some of the picture :whistle:. Still hurts though but that's what FPS games, sports and alcohol are for right?
 
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