Do it at the end, after the drinks have been taken away and the bill paid for. Maybe as you're saying bye "btw I'm breaking up with you, k bye"
That's harsh though we have been togther for 3 yrs.
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That's harsh though we have been togther for 3 yrs.
I.am.Sam
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hahahahahahha ..in jhb things are far
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It's already decided and what not, but IMO (and it's not very informed about your situation) it sounds like you didn't really bring any of this up with her and made it clear they're points that make you not want to be with her, and let it bottle up
hahahaha no mercy hey Mike?
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Think about one last hurray before you end it. :twisted:
If you like I can fill you in?
We have tried everything but we constantly end up fighting.
I don't want to be alone trust me I'm terrible when I am single but I don;t know what else to do its draining emotionally and physically.
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on the way home is a good idea ..they like using that words "stop the car i want to get out"
nothing better than agreeing to that
life alone is good ..you need that lone time and hope you have friends
and acid ...yeah we know what you mean ...cpt has lots of girls can always come back
Yea my friends are famous so they travel the country and what not, not really have a lot of time with them
Last hurray was ages ago, haven't had sex for about 3 months.
the connection is not there anymore.
Mike Hoxbig
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Unless you wanna deal with crying and raging fits on the way home. Up to you hey.
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Naw it's okay dude, sometimes what you want and what she's willing to give are 2 different things and it doesn't help for you to chase after something that will never happen. Just stick to your guns though, if you fail to break up with her and she "changes" it's very likely going to be a short-term thing.
Keep in mind not to get jealous/mad etc when you hear she moved on with someone else quite soon after. I've found that when women do what she does, they're usually not interested in the relationship/you anymore and want out, but don't want to break your heart because you're so "nice" and what not. (for some reason they're always "he too nice me not want to hurt" but then they hurt you even worse by doing what they do to stall things)
Clean break is always recommended. I made the mistake with my ex to not do that. MAN was she fickle. At least I got some good sex out of it when I stopped giving a ****, lol.
But now I'm on to bigger/better things, even if it's not ideal or works out or whatever.
Well don't know if that will be the case it has been a long time coming, hoping to end it well.
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famous friends ?
names ?
abzo is my only famous friend ...
Do you know the band Zebra & Giraffe?
I.am.Sam
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Kornhub
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Nope
Mike Hoxbig
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That's cos your right hand is still attached to you
Thanks for the advice, we have broken up before and got back together many times and each time has ended worse but I never made a clean break and that's what I intend to do this time.
zululami
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Guys! Thank you so much for all your advices, some quite hilarious!! I will do my best to protect my current relationship!
zululami
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We were together for about 5 years. So we were very very close at some point. And we lived together for about three years
