Expats are trashing SA

OK, "racist" (according to this article, that's what I am purely for leaving S.A.) ex-pat weighing in. Proceed with caution...

Chris Moerdyk said:
Fortunately, we have a government that does not prevent any of us doing precisely this [leaving S.A.]

Let me put that another way: Unfortunately we have a government that is all too keen to get rid of people who contribute to the economy, pay taxes and have the balls to criticise. Subtle difference, eh?

Chris Moerdyk said:
although I believe that anyone leaving South Africa should be able to take everything they have earned by the sweat of their own brows and not be restricted financially as they are now.

About the only sensible thing he said in the whole article.

Chris Moerdyk said:
I have no intention of leaving this country because I tried it for a couple of years in the 1970's during the apartheid era and didn't like it one bit.

Coming home to S.A. in the 70s as a while oke can hardly be compared to coming home to S.A. in 2008. Compare apples to apples, please.

But, nothing on earth annoys me more that those South Africans who have decided to leave the country and then continually write letters to the SA media and berate their friends and families back home about how bad things are in South Africa.

They don't even try to hide the fact that they clearly wish South Africa would self destruct in one huge cataclysmic civil war.

Chris Moerdyk said:
I believe they do this because they have this overwhelming need to keep convincing themselves,.... blah blah blah

Ever considered that we might be doing this because we are in a much better position to see just how much S.A. is deteriorating. Seeing S.A. as a once-a-year or so snapshot really brings out the problems in a way that you can never see it when you live there and are fed governments lies day to day.

Chris Moerdyk said:
But, I don't hear as many of these expats [sic] trashing their countries with such venomous passion.

Maybe because the news that come out of those countries tend to be "regular" news, and even good news? Maybe because they are not continuously embarrassed by their old country's leaders? You can't really compare Irish and Australian ex-pats with South Africans. Australians have piece and safety in their country, enough jobs to go around (for those willing to work), reasonable standard of living. I have yet to meet one Australian cite any of the reasons for leaving that South Africans do. Ireland is different - they had genuine civil unrest, and trust me, the Catholic v.s. Protestant war makes good old S.A. black v.s. white racism look like friendly banter between old friends.

Chris Moerdyk said:
Of course not all expat South Africans behave this way. But far too many of them do

Wrong again. Using only the people who actually sit down and write back as an indication of what "far too many" think, is careless and self serving. The overwhelming majority of South Africans I know around here (and through work alone I know around a hundred, not to mention friends and friends of friends), are pretty damn proud of being South African, wear their Springbok jerseys, know the lyrics of Nkosi Sikelel', and have *new* S.A. flags wherever they find a spot to display it - bumper sticker, fridge magnet, pinned to a suit, one (or several) of those beady ones pinned to rucksacks, suitcases, handbags. Most of them take a keen interest in what's going on in S.A. - read the news on-line, chat to friends back home, pick up the S.A. newspapers here. All of them are deeply saddened by what's happening to the beloved country, and in all the conversations I've had, all were able to deliver fair and realistic, if not constructive criticism. Oh, and dare I mention, a surprising number of my fellow ex-pats are not white. And an even bigger number of white, mostly Afrikaans ex-pats, myself included, are dating people of other races.


Chris Moerdyk said:
and one can't help but wonder about their real reasons for leaving.

Yeah keep wondering, ANC boy, because unless you get your ass over here and get to know the ex-pats you are so opinionated about, you have nothing of substance to say.

Chris Moerdyk said:
Did they really believe that the grass was greener on the other side?

Yes. And it is. I can send a picture. If that doesn't convince you I'll include a copy of my pay slip.

Chris Moerdyk said:
After all, why does one see so many old South African flags being waved at SA/Australia rugby Tests in Perth?

1. Refer to my comment about South Africans and the new flag.

2. Something that you and your ultra left buddies just don't get, Chris, is that for people who left S.A. prior to 1994, the new flag has no significance whatsoever. This new South Africa is a foreign country to them, and visiting it is as good as visiting, and as much of a culture shock, as visiting any African country was in the old days. The old flag, however vile you pretend to find it, is the only way these ex-pats can identify with their old country - their old country is not the New S.A. Have you ever considered that these ex-pats might be faced with a bit of a nationality crisis?

3. I don't see anything wrong the old flag. It pre-dates Apartheid by a few decades.

Wikipedia said:
It was only after the first post-Union Afrikaner government took office in 1925 that a bill was introduced in Parliament to make provisions for a national flag for the Union; this action immediately prompted three years of near civil war, as the British thought that the Boers wanted to remove their cherished imperial symbols. Natal Province even threatened to secede from the Union.
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The choice of the Prinsevlag as the basis upon which to design the South African flag had more to do with compromise than Afrikaner political desires, as the Prinsevlag was believed to be the first flag hoisted on South African soil and was politically neutral as it was no longer the national flag of any nation.

The old flag is most certainly not relevant to the New South Africa, but it's hardly a symbol of oppression/apartheid or even inappropriate that insecure ignorant New South Africans (white or black, for their respective reasons) want it to be. It is, however, very relevant to a small group of people who, for simple logistical reason can't relate to the New South Africa. Just let it be, OK?

Chris Moerdyk said:
Why does one keep hearing about groups of South Africans continuing to celebrate apartheid holidays

To the ignorant and uninformed, these so-called "apartheid holidays" are mostly religious days or days that have historical significance to the Arikaans folk. The fact that they're not relevant to the New South Africa doesn't make them wrong or irrelevant to Afrikaans people. The was one day that was political in nature: 31 May - Republic day. Well, South Africa is still a republic, isn't it?

Chris Moerdyk said:
on the beaches of New Zealand surrounded by AWB uniforms and flags?

Never heard of this, but I'll agree there are exceptions to every rule. Even so, I'd be willing to bet they were Voortrekker uniforms, not AWB uniforms. Again, irrelevant to most people in the New South Africa, very relevant, and rightly so, to many Afrikaans people.

Chris Moerdyk said:
Frankly, I don't know why I get so steamed up about these jealous and clearly insecure morons

Because you're looking in the mirror and seeing something you don't like? Guilty about something you're not telling us? Because you're so desperate to believe the ANC's "collective" version of every part of South African history? Or because writing ignorant/indifferent and provocative extreme-leftist rubbish is the only way you'll ever get anything printed?

Chris Moerdyk said:
Sit around and whinge or get off our backsides and do something about fixing it.

So, aside from writing the aforementioned rubbish, what exactly are you doing to "fix it?"
 
KoffieJunkie, your sounding dangerously like one of those British expats I just mentioned... :D

Seriaaaas though, I guess it's hard for me to truly understand the "saffa in the UK" thing, as when I returned here, I returned to something familiar enough to settle back into.
I have a huge gap missing from my "popular culture GK" - a good 20 years - but there's enough memories to fill that in fairly easily.

I don't have single South African friend here in the UK, in fact, I went out of my way to avoid them. All of my mates and my partner Cath, are english.

Funny that :D

Oddly enough, in SA, it was the opposite - all of my mates eventually became South Africans.

Why would I want to hang out with a bunch of people that kept reminiscing about "the old country" - bollocks to that, it's the now I want - the here and now.
Live for the moment, live for the future.

I think, in conclusion, Expats are boring as ****.
 
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bb_matt, I just read the first post and replied - working my way through the whole thread now.

For what it's worth, I've done the return-to-some-place routine once. My home town, place of birth, where I lived for close to 20 years, have, in the space of a few years, changed so much that when going there now genuinely feels like being in a strange town. I hardly know anyone because most people I knew have moved on, all the street names have changed, a lot of buildings that were historic landmarks or otherwise significant (like the house I grew up in) have been demolished to make space for new developments. The few places that I remember as part of my past that are still standing, like my high school (of which I have very fond memories), are now hidden behind high walls and electric fencing. My childhood house had no fence at all (except *behind* the house to keep the dog in) and the front door was wide open when we were at home. I tell you, going back there was traumatising. And this is only a small scale example of what some ex-pats experience. Of course, it's not the same for every one.

I also went out of my way to avoid South Africans, except for the handful I knew prior to coming here, but it's almost impossible to avoid (especially since my accent is still there).

Why would I want to hang out with a bunch of people that kept reminiscing about "the old country" - bollocks to that, it's the now I want - the here and now.

And yet you hang out on these forums... ;)
 
Sure, because of historical reasons, poverty, poor upbringing etc.

Fixed the emphasis for you. BS on the "historical reasons, poverty" - there are past of the world that have worse poverty yet much less violent crime.

Being violent, as much as committing a crime, is a decision. Having respect for someone else's property and life, and knowing there are some real consequences to face (something lacking in S.A.) goes a long way to wards making that decision.
 
Break it down into the specifics too, and Aus and UK still come out ahead in burglaries and car thefts, to name two.

Yeah, but in the UK and Australia your life is generally not in danger while your house is broken into or your car stolen.

* One in every three Australians is a victim of crime.

Yeah, it's really traumatising when someone dumps their empty coke bottle in your front garden.

* Saudi diplomats have 367 unpaid parking fines in Britain.

Diplomatic immunity should be abolished everywhere.

Well I'm happy for you that you're life is so much better. Enjoy the crap weather :)

linky

It's been like this for two weeks - truly terrible, isn't it?
 
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Yeah, it never gets light here :rolleyes:

Yesterday:- http://www.flickr.com/photos/bb_matt/2271284289/

And yet you hang out on these forums...

Yeah, I just can't help myself :)

I came back to the forum after chatting with my brother in Joburg. I'm concerned about him and his family and my Dad. It's useful now for me to try to keep up to speed on the status of SA.
I was under the impression until recently that the country was ticking along in much the same way as when I left in 2006.
I now find it's got worse.

Of course, I take many of the posts here with more than a pinch of salt. My brother gives a much more rounded story - he reckons they are just living day to day as 'normally' as possible, with a generator in the garage and dodging the potholes in the road. I have a feeling he'll leave the country if it becomes clear Zuma will become president.
We get very little news about SA in the UK.
 
Nice pic KJ. Reminds me of the moon last night here in Cape Town, except it was so much brighter! Oh, and there were buildings framing the pic and not trees. ;)
 
Nice pic KJ. Reminds me of the moon last night here in Cape Town, except it was so much brighter! Oh, and there were buildings framing the pic and not trees. ;)

You have buildings where we have trees. Now doesn't that blow a hole in the horrible city argument :D We have many parks with squirrels and ducks and many trees - and they're safe to walk in... :p
 
Uhm, what do you get when you click on my linky? Should be some trees on the sides, blue sky in the middle and the moon in the background.
Indeed it is - nice framing - I would have immortalised it too. :)
 
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