Stefanmuller
Expert Member
Point I am trying to make is that it is totally ****ed up in so many ways that you need to live like that. I mean who has to sleep with a gun under their pillow "one up" as you say and think of it as "normal", that after having several methods and barriers to entry. And then point out to someone that has been murdered like "yes, but you dont have burglar bars".I stay on a small holding outside of Pretoria. Our family has a farm in a Trust in Zeerust which has been in our family for generations. I grew up on a farm and yes, distance and isolation is an issue. The trick is not be be caught sleeping and off guard. Sure the burglar bars won't stop them, it does wake you and give you time to set up a defense. We don't sleep with open windows. Our burglar bars and security gates are inside the house. They need to break the window/glass door then get through the gate. We have 2 pitbulls outside at night and one inside. I sleep with my firearm pushed into the side of the bed between the section where the wood and the matras meet. (one-up). Wife has access to the safe with the shot-gun in it to her side of the bed.
It's going to be near impossible for them to get inside and into our bedrooms without someone waking up. I don't feel safe still. We have 3 guards guarding our entrance and exit roads as part of a community security scheme we have together with a response vehicle we pay for and maintain ourselves and a 24/7 emergency number. Still I don't sleep good at night.
They can hit any time and me making it so hard on them will probably be me being attacked outside while doing something or going or coming back home. I'm aware of that. I at least try and make myself as hard a target as possible. I would never be able to sleep with the windows open, no burglar bars and no dogs. Just feeling safe with an electric fence.
But I have made peace with it, and this is the type of life I want to live and give to my kids.
Totally shocking that one has to be conditioned like that by the actions of these sub-humans.
