First time having sex

Apologies, it's "First" time :)

Waiting period for how long though?

Depends on the contraception. The injection or pill are the most common. The pill can have some serious effects on your lady, some of them make things unpleasant for you as well. Seriously go consult a gyne or doctor and get something that will be suitable for

What sorts of havoc? sorry for the stupid questions, will definitely research everything, but appreciate the feedback from you guys

The morning after pill can be extremely unpleasant for the female. I strongly suggest you read the side effects, and then pretend its your body you are doing that to
 
Ok so this is my first post on the mybroadband forums. I expect some flaming and trolls but oh well such is life.

That being said. I think the title to my thread is quite self-explanatory. I have been dating my gf for a couple of months. I really love this girl and all that soppy nonsense...We have decided it's time to take our relationship to the next level, bare in mind that she is not the virgin but i am.

My question is this, what contraceptive measures should we take in order to ensure there won't be any stress for the next couple of months. What condom is the best to use? What is the best morning after pill? I'm just trying to cover all angles. I'm very paranoid when it comes to these situations, however i also wanna be responsible (hypocritical statement, seeing that i wanna engage in sex before marriage) but oh well i've got needs too lol.

Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Croxley

Don't get cheap condoms. Try out a few on your own if you what to know... its a personal thing. Get used to the feeling because sometimes it does take a while.

Mornig after pill is a once off and should only be used if she is not on the pill and the condom breaks and you blow your load inside. Its quite a hectic thing and seriously messes with her inner workings... you don't just take it for fun.
 
Are all young people as thorough and forwards-thinking as this when it comes to sex these days? When I was a teenager it was snakebite and black and your mates told you about it the next day. :o Commendable indeed.
 
Are all young people as thorough and forwards-thinking as this when it comes to sex these days? When I was a teenager it was snakebite and black and your mates told you about it the next day. :o Commendable indeed.

yeah, gotta say i wasnt nearly as responsible, i think i was very lucky in my younger days to not have made a girl pregnant, not have an STD and not have a serious conviction as a result of drunk driving..was definitely a stupid stupid guy
 
Re: Fist time having sex

Eh, gf is on the pill. Don't really care even if she does get pregnant I'll go get an abortion on Voortrekker road and sommer get a nipple piercing at the same place with the same hanger they used to take it out.

One can only pray that you do not manage to breed...
 
Just have one off with the wrist, and do it in the shower, then there will be no evidence
 
OP....dude.....your over analysis of your first sexy time with girl is going to cause you to be so stressed that your pee pee is not going to come to the party.

Go to local BP garage late at night, buy most expensive condom, go back to sexy lady and do what comes naturally.

Disclaimer: Sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted children are a real risk.
 
My only advice would be is to take it slow. Don't try and piledrive her as quick as you can, remember .. You've won, you got the *****! take your time and enjoy it, Be an gentleman and make her cum first! The first time wouldn't probably last longer than 5 mins, so make sure she is satisfied, and then blow your load.

Enjoy man...
 
My only advice would be is to take it slow. Don't try and piledrive her as quick as you can, remember .. You've won, you got the *****! take your time and enjoy it, Be an gentleman and make her cum first! The first time wouldn't probably last longer than 5 mins, so make sure she is satisfied, and then blow your load.

Enjoy man...

Dude... its his first time. He will be lucky if he doesn't blow his load before he even gets it in.
 
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