I have no problem admitting that as a white I did benefit from apartheid and my child still do and its a fact. It was not a system I agreed with, its not a system I believed in and its not a system that should ever have existed.
The truth is I lived most of my life in the country and so I cannot lie by saying I did not benefit.
But do I suffer from white guilt, no, never have, never will. So I say to you all, don't apologize for you are, but do not deny the truth of the past.
Excellent post