GF probably left me.

Frankie23

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It sucks buddy. But it will get better. Futile words right now sure, but it goes away with time.
 
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Rejoice you are single, go spread your seed and enjoy life.
 
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Croxley said:
We never got back together, i assumed we did. Anyway **** love and everything ****ing thing associated with it!
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Don't hate love, hate those that made you feel that way towards love *makes a <3 with his hands*
 
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I believe Justin Timberlake said it best when he broke up with Britney Spears... Cry me a river.
 
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STS said:
Don't hate love, hate those that made you feel that way towards love *makes a <3 with his hands*
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Just in case it has previously been revoked:

/issues STS with mancard

/revokes mancard
 
Noob-Noob

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Croxley said:
We are just not together. Anyway life goes on hey.
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Me and my Ex are out for about 6months now, we were together 3 years.

I have had a few chances of getting a new girlfriend the last few months, but each time when I’m on that point, i start to panic and shoot it down.

I love being single, you can do what you want, drink as much as you want, no more hovering in shopping malls, when going out you don’t have to worry about being responsible for her, no more fights, no more expensive restaurant or grocery bills...., no more messy bathroom, i actually have a huge list.....

I just can’t see myself back in that life style, it was very hard in the beginning, you get used to a certain lifestyle, and you are used in waking up next to someone and doing everything together, but being single now 6monhs, i would choose my life now above that one any time of the day,

The thing is, it’s obvious the 2 of you where not compactible (same as us), she was a pretty girl and you probably jumped at the opportunity to be her boyfriend, (i was in the same boat), and in the beginning of the breakup you feel like you wil never meet anyone as special as her, you will never love again and all the BS, dude, to be honest, every person you meet differ from the previous one, they all have different qualities and end of the day as soon as you start loving again, you forget all about the previous one. (until you breakup again and you feel exactly the same again...lol)

So don’t worry bro, i can promise you that you will find someone that you will get along with beter, and love her even more. it’s inevitable.

I’m also not the most handsome guy around, so let me give you a few rules
1.Never fear of being rejected, it happens to all of us.
2.Self-confidence, this one is kind of difficult, but it’s like when facing a vicious dog, don’t show any fear (even though inside you are crying like a baby...lol), walk up to her, and talk......
3.Have good manners, be a gentleman, try not to swear in front of her, if a lady passes through a door, insist she walks first, if she wants to sit, pull the chair out, if she wants to enter a car, open the door....etc
4.Be funny, if you can make a girl laugh, you are halfway there!
5.Always smile, not an idiotic smile from ear to ear, rather a cheeky smile ;-)
6.if you can pull it off, try to be interesting yet mysterious. (I’m like this, then it disappears as soon as i open my mouth, luckily my humor saves me from here...:p )
 
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Lament said:
Me and my Ex are out for about 6months now, we were together 3 years.

I have had a few chances of getting a new girlfriend the last few months, but each time when I’m on that point, i start to panic and shoot it down.

I love being single, you can do what you want, drink as much as you want, no more hovering in shopping malls, when going out you don’t have to worry about being responsible for her, no more fights, no more expensive restaurant or grocery bills...., no more messy bathroom, i actually have a huge list.....

I just can’t see myself back in that life style, it was very hard in the beginning, you get used to a certain lifestyle, and you are used in waking up next to someone and doing everything together, but being single now 6monhs, i would choose my life now above that one any time of the day,

The thing is, it’s obvious the 2 of you where not compactible (same as us), she was a pretty girl and you probably jumped at the opportunity to be her boyfriend, (i was in the same boat), and in the beginning of the breakup you feel like you wil never meet anyone as special as her, you will never love again and all the BS, dude, to be honest, every person you meet differ from the previous one, they all have different qualities and end of the day as soon as you start loving again, you forget all about the previous one. (until you breakup again and you feel exactly the same again...lol)

So don’t worry bro, i can promise you that you will find someone that you will get along with beter, and love her even more. it’s inevitable.

I’m also not the most handsome guy around, so let me give you a few rules
1.Never fear of being rejected, it happens to all of us.
2.Self-confidence, this one is kind of difficult, but it’s like when facing a vicious dog, don’t show any fear (even though inside you are crying like a baby...lol), walk up to her, and talk......
3.Have good manners, be a gentleman, try not to swear in front of her, if a lady passes through a door, insist she walks first, if she wants to sit, pull the chair out, if she wants to enter a car, open the door....etc
4.Be funny, if you can make a girl laugh, you are halfway there!
5.Always smile, not an idiotic smile from ear to ear, rather a cheeky smile ;-)
6.if you can pull it off, try to be interesting yet mysterious. (I’m like this, then it disappears as soon as i open my mouth, luckily my humor saves me from here...:p )
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Thank you for the advice, and thank you all for the advice. Appreciate it! She messages me constantly and just goes off on what a bad person i am, and all that while all i ever did was love her. I had my mistakes, sometimes raised my voice and said some hurtful things but ja such is life. Difficult to forget about a person when they text you and tries to break down your self esteem.
 
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Croxley said:
Thank you for the advice, and thank you all for the advice. Appreciate it! She messages me constantly and just goes off on what a bad person i am, and all that while all i ever did was love her. I had my mistakes, sometimes raised my voice and said some hurtful things but ja such is life. Difficult to forget about a person when they text you and tries to break down your self esteem.
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If you have android, block the SMS's.
 
Noob-Noob

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Pho3nix said:
If you have android, block the SMS's.
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+1
i used Black Baller :-D

Dude, just ignore her, honestly, am i right if i say you are responding to her texts?, Don’t respond, block het on whatsapp, block her on FB and forget about her. If she sees you dont respond she will leave you alone.

Kinda childish of her saying hurtful things.
Its amazing how similar our stories are, after we broke up she also send me lots of text, making me out to be the bad guy, (she cheated on me by the way),saying hurtful things, trying to brake me down, at the time i was still emotional, she also said i will never get a beautiful like her again and what what what. It took me 2 weeks to get a new girl (equally as beautiful) interested in me. Don’t Let her bring you down.

Enjoy the single life, its not all that bad!
 
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Lament said:
5.Always smile, not an idiotic smile from ear to ear, rather a cheeky smile ;-)
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This! You'd be surprised by how many more girls take an interest in you by simply having a smile on your face.

When I had braces on and I'd head out with my friends, I'd never smile and hence not that many girls took a liking to me.

The minute I had my braces taken off I always had a smile/grin on my face and now everytime I go out I meet new girls.

A smile is associated with an easy going attitude which means you are approachable and easy to talk to. Girls like that, duh.
 
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Datura said:
Just in case it has previously been revoked:

/issues STS with mancard

/revokes mancard
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don't worry, i have enough man cards from all the men i've wrestled naked and killed
 
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Lament said:
+1
i used Black Baller :-D

Dude, just ignore her, honestly, am i right if i say you are responding to her texts?, Don’t respond, block het on whatsapp, block her on FB and forget about her. If she sees you dont respond she will leave you alone.

Kinda childish of her saying hurtful things.
Its amazing how similar our stories are, after we broke up she also send me lots of text, making me out to be the bad guy, (she cheated on me by the way),saying hurtful things, trying to brake me down, at the time i was still emotional, she also said i will never get a beautiful like her again and what what what. It took me 2 weeks to get a new girl (equally as beautiful) interested in me. Don’t Let her bring you down.

Enjoy the single life, its not all that bad!
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I've said a lot of hurtful things to her while we were arguing the last couple of days and in the past, due to the fact of her always accusing me of cheating when i know its not true and it makes me so angry. I've been thinking about what i said to her, all those hurtful comments now i blame myself and all that ****. If only i behaved better. ****
 
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STS said:
don't worry, i have enough man cards from all the men i've wrestled naked and killed
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Croxley said:
I've said a lot of hurtful things to her while we were arguing the last couple of days and in the past, due to the fact of her always accusing me of cheating when i know its not true and it makes me so angry. I've been thinking about what i said to her, all those hurtful comments now i blame myself and all that ****. If only i behaved better. ****
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Don't focus on the negative. It didn't work out, write down the reasons you KNOW it didn't and read it when you think maybe we could get back together. Hope is good in all other aspects of life but I find in matters of the heart it works well in keeping us firmly in the past and unable to move forward ala the guy who was friendzone'd and hopes and believes he will be the boyfriend one day. Don't waste your time. Move on to bigger(DD's are bigger then advertised, be warned) and better things :)
 
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