GF probably left me.

[Croxley]

As title says she probably left me... we dated a year (Best time of my 25 years life). We constantly argued over social networks, we both had trust issues.

It's my first girlfriend and shes my everything, we fight and the relationship is so wrong on so many levels but i really do love her a lot. She came out of a long relationship and i was there for her and stood by her. I've forced myself to not send her a text or anything since last night and its really hard. She told me yesterday she doesn't want to be with me and i should leave, i stood there insisting to stay. Sort of acted desperate, which is like a knife through the heart.

Boils down to the fact that I made mistakes that made her unhappy, she made mistakes that made me unhappy etc.
Anyway i just want some advice on getting over this. I'm not the most good looking guy so i guess it will be difficult to find someone else seeing as she was sooo pretty and i couldn't understand what she saw in me.

The fact that all the guys will now jump at the opportunity of trying their luck with her is so painful.

I sound pathetic but just how i feel. Need advice for getting over this/her.

Advice would be appreciated

 

[Drifter]

Think how much more cash you will have in your pocket.

 

[azbob]

Join the fleshlight thread.

 

[ShaunSA]

You will get over it. No matter how impossible that seems right now.

In the meantime get your mind occupied with other stuff.

And yes there will be someone else. Often one needs to go through several someones before you find the right one.

A few years down the line you will look back and be grateful for the lessons that you learned from this one and also be able to laugh that you were so hung up on someone who you cannot even remember anymore.

 

[Noob-Noob]

Sorry to hear, Join the club bud, im in exactly the same boat.

Also trying not to text back and sound desperate, i went as far as to delete her from my phone to prevent me from acting stupid.

Hang in there, its not easy the first few weeks.

 

[visrot]

Join the fleshlight thread.

It's R990 a pop. This poor boy's been sucked dry already...financially I mean.

 

[gregmcc]

If you both had trust issues then its for the better. You will soon get over her. Do something to take your mind off her.

 

[I.am.Sam]

sorry for your gain

hope you get enough time and have enough friends on hand

and also look for things to keep your mind occupied

about the looks part ..even shaun has a partner so you will get someone

 

[Cool E]

She came out of a long relationship and i was there for her and stood by her.

She was using you as a Social Worker, now she is over her ex - life goes on

We constantly argued over social networks, we both had trust issues.

Reason

I'm not the most good looking guy so i guess it will be difficult to find someone else seeing as she was sooo pretty and i couldn't understand what she saw in me.

 

[visrot]

As title says she probably left me... we dated a year (Best time of my 25 years life). We constantly argued over social networks, we both had trust issues.

It's my first girlfriend and shes my everything, we fight and the relationship is so wrong on so many levels but i really do love her a lot. She came out of a long relationship and i was there for her and stood by her. I've forced myself to not send her a text or anything since last night and its really hard. She told me yesterday she doesn't want to be with me and i should leave, i stood there insisting to stay. Sort of acted desperate, which is like a knife through the heart.

Boils down to the fact that I made mistakes that made her unhappy, she made mistakes that made me unhappy etc.
Anyway i just want some advice on getting over this. I'm not the most good looking guy so i guess it will be difficult to find someone else seeing as she was sooo pretty and i couldn't understand what she saw in me.

The fact that all the guys will now jump at the opportunity of trying their luck with her is so painful.

I sound pathetic but just how i feel. Need advice for getting over this/her.

Advice would be appreciated

You say it as if all women out there are stunners. You'll find another again, don't worry. It's the approach that counts. Some beautiful women are able to look past money, looks and long shlongs.

 

[Random717]

I've found wallowing in the pain of the idea of her being with someone else for few hours helps numb it a bit. Just keep your phone off as the emotions are really strong initially and that urge to fight to get her back can lead to some crazy messages that don't help anyone.

 

[rubytox]

Sorry for your loss buddy. That's bummer.
How long have you been together?

It's early days though. Most couples have issues.

 

[Griz]

Can we get a pic to decide if she really is as pretty as you say.


OT: sorry to hear bro

 

[azbob]

Hmmm let's look back and watch this relationship fall apart....


http://mybroadband.co.za/vb/showthread.php?t=486644

http://mybroadband.co.za/vb/showthread.php?t=468883

http://mybroadband.co.za/vb/showthread.php?t=510758

http://mybroadband.co.za/vb/showthread.php?t=530446

 

[F1 Fan]

Just keep your mind occupied like playing sport or watching series.

This happened to me with my first gf (only had two gfs before getting married, the second being my wife) and I used to watch Scrubs a lot. The light humour used to cheer me up and after a while, you kind of just move on.

You'll get over it, and you will meet someone else. Look at my situation, I met my wife after that So that break up was the best thing that ever happened to me.

 

[OGroteKoning]

Yes, it hurts
Yes, you will get over it
Yes, you will find someone else
Yes, life goes on

Good luck

 

[isie]

From the way you describe the relationship , you both better off without each other

 

[F1 Fan]

Hmmm let's look back and watch this relationship fall apart....


http://mybroadband.co.za/vb/showthread.php?t=486644

http://mybroadband.co.za/vb/showthread.php?t=468883

http://mybroadband.co.za/vb/showthread.php?t=510758

http://mybroadband.co.za/vb/showthread.php?t=530446

Well, half glass full, we'll atleast have less threads on this relationship.

 

[smallearth]

Its painful, but the first girl you shag is NOT 'The One'. If you want to be decent about it forget about her and move on.

If you don't want to be decent, shag somebody else and let the ex know she was nothing special... which it seems she wasn't in anycase...

And stop being desperate.

 

[TJ99]

What do you mean, "probably?".

She did leave you. Now stop putting her on a freakin pedestal and move on. Don't get all depressive like an emo teenager, it's just a waste of time.

The fact that all the guys will now jump at the opportunity of trying their luck with her is so painful.

Also, hate to break it to you but I can guarantee you that guys will jump at the opportunity to try their luck even if she has a boyfriend. It's as certain as death and taxes.

Edit: Yeah, unfortunately after reading some of the posts Abzo linked to, neither of you belong anywhere near an adult relationship.