GF probably left me.

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ShaunSA said:
You will get over it. No matter how impossible that seems right now.

In the meantime get your mind occupied with other stuff.

And yes there will be someone else. Often one needs to go through several someones before you find the right one.

A few years down the line you will look back and be grateful for the lessons that you learned from this one and also be able to laugh that you were so hung up on someone who you cannot even remember anymore.
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I could not have said it better :)
There will be times when you will miss her desperately, there'll be times you want to pick up the phone and tell her about your day...just remember that everyone goes through it. I really am sorry that you are hurting, but you will get through it.
 
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A ugly dude (+ confidence) will pick up a chick far easier than an ugly chick (with equal confidence). Shallow as that sounds, that is the law of the universe.

Suck it up boet, and move on.
 
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Djin said:
A ugly dude (+ confidence) will pick up a chick far easier than an ugly chick (with equal confidence). Shallow as that sounds, that is the law of the universe.

Suck it up boet, and move on.
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What my clone said.
 
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I have been through your schit a few times. The relationship is fscked. Don't try and fix it. The pain will mess with your head and make you justify to yourself why it would be a good thing to try and make things work. You will try. Things will be cool for two weeks and fall apart again. If you guys drink a lot forget about it completely. What I did last time after numerous retries was to simply suck it up, remove all contact details, move 60km away and sever ALL ties. After 2 months I was dating someone else. Over her (if you are reading this stop stalking me bitch, I am over you :D ). You are young, dude. Cut all ties, none of that friends BS (that will come back if it is meant to be 2 years down the road when you bump into each other).

Cheers.
 
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Datura said:
I have been through your schit a few times. The relationship is fscked. Don't try and fix it. The pain will mess with your head and make you justify to yourself why it would be a good thing to try and make things work. You will try. Things will be cool for two weeks and fall apart again. If you guys drink a lot forget about it completely. What I did last time after numerous retries was to simply suck it up, remove all contact details, move 60km away and sever ALL ties. After 2 months I was dating someone else. Over her (if you are reading this stop stalking me bitch, I am over you :D ). You are young, dude. Cut all ties, none of that friends BS (that will come back if it is meant to be 2 years down the road when you bump into each other).

Cheers.
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You moved 60km away because of someone? Tsk tsk. I used to respect you.
 
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The only reason to ever move 60km away is if your ex is Jodi Arias.
 
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abzo said:
You moved 60km away because of someone? Tsk tsk. I used to respect you.
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Sea Point sucks ass. When we started dating I already had a place in Gordon's Bay. When we broke up it was just convenient to complete my move.
 
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Sorry to hear it sucks when it happens.

My advice would be to sulk for a week or so and then use the hurt to turn into the person she would regret she ever broke up with. Join a gym, get some hobbies and travel.
 
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Avoid, avoid, avoid! Don't call her, don't whatsapp her, don't watch her Facebook statuses.
 
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Nut up and leave it be.

Go out, focus on work and your other relationships and be happy.

Being happy has a way of really pissing ex-SOs off :)
 
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Update your relationship status on FB to "Single" and then make a post, somethign to the effect of "free at last".

Please do post her response here, she WILL respond
 
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how do people stay in relationships where there is trust issues

sad sad times
 
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Croxley said:
As title says she probably left me... we dated a year (Best time of my 25 years life). We constantly argued over social networks, we both had trust issues.

It's my first girlfriend and shes my everything,

I'm not the most good looking guy so i guess it will be difficult to find someone else seeing as she was sooo pretty and i couldn't understand what she saw in me.
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Your first gf? Dude think of all the possibilities from now on. Meet new girls, time to have fun.
I've been where you are, shrugged it off and moved on.

So you not that good looking? Lol, its not about looks but all about confidence. This is KEY to meeting girls.
 
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