GF probably left me.

TJ99

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What is it with all the KLAP GYM BOET advice in here?

You want the poor guy to have his heart broken again, by two blonde belters at the same time?
 
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Mike Hoxbig

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Block her from your life (Facebook, WhatsApp, etc.), delete her number and take up a hobby or two. Contrary to what some okes are saying, you don't need to bang another chic to take your mind off her, you just need to shift your focus. Gym is a good start, going out with your mates another. Other chics will pop up.
 

moondoggie86

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she just text me and said "hello"

That's normally a I miss you hello but you need to ascertain if it's really worth it.

Constant arguing over social media...not on brah, not on.

Reminds me of my cousin and his soon to be ex-wife...a normal conversation between them contained one verb, one adjective and a multitude of profanities. I would not like to be in such a relationship.
 

rubytox

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she just text me and said "hello"

I really think that you must try and get some distance from this girl. Take some time-out. Ask her to give you a break.

You can do it in a nice way, saying something like "I'm not really sure what I'm feeling at the moment and really need some time-out."

Judging from your OP, the relationship seems strained and heading down a cliff. It would not be in your or her benefit to continue with the relationship while you are both struggling with trust issues. Until you have dealt with your trust issues (and she with hers), you will be setting yourself up for disaster. The end result maybe a co-dependent relationship and that is not healthy at all.
 

Kornhub

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Begging will never get her back and will make you look like a douche. I know it is hard getting over someone but time always heals and you will meet someone in the future.

Edit: Ok she smsed you if you sms back just keep it short and simple.
 

Hemi300c

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Seem like you were the rebound guy. Get pissed off about that and forget her.

Sorry but from where I sit that seems to be it.
 

Croxley

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I kept it short and simple, just replied, with hi.

She asked if i'm still mad at her?

i said, no...thats all
 
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