GF probably left me.

Markd

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Ah first love! Such a toxic potent thing. So much so in fact that even when things are clearly very wrong, your heart insists on telling you that everything is ok, and that this must be the "best time of your life".

So Croxley, let me explain how your life is going to work if you persist with this clearly very doomed relationship:

1. You will not suddenly trust each other and stop arguing. No.
2. Eventually, probably after you've wasted years of your life, your self dignity will overcome your lack of self confidence, and you'll get sick of this sh$t - the secrets, chatting, cheating etc.
3. You'll feel alone and sad, wondering wtf ugly old you is going to do
4. Eventually you'll grow some balls, and find a way to meet other women and ask them out
5. You'll meet another woman, and if shes a good one, fall in love and marry her probably
6. You'll be wondering how the heck you got married so soon, and wonder if maybe you should have played the field a bit more than you did, because you were so stuck on this initial failure of a relationship
7. Ah heck, you'll be a happy chap
8. You'll die at some point in the future

So anyway, the quicker you get over this the better. Even if you mess up after this, it's going to be better than your current mess, so just get out dude.
 

Noob-Noob

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This actually sounds exactly like my ex, does she by any chance stay in Groenkloof?
 

senyetse

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I swear, this forum is like Bold and the Beautiful. One dude's wife is not lus anymore, other wants a Fleshlight, another possibly knocked up his friend with benefits. Anyone else got some dirty laundry to air? :whistling:
 

I.am.Sam

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I swear, this forum is like Bold and the Beautiful. One dude's wife is not lus anymore, other wants a Fleshlight, another possibly knocked up his friend with benefits. Anyone else got some dirty laundry to air? :whistling:

you must be new ...

soon you will find the dating section and there is a left overs section as well
 

Ninja'd

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I swear, this forum is like Bold and the Beautiful. One dude's wife is not lus anymore, other wants a Fleshlight, another possibly knocked up his friend with benefits. Anyone else got some dirty laundry to air? :whistling:

Twins, my nigga. :cool:
 

Pho3nix

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I swear, this forum is like Bold and the Beautiful. One dude's wife is not lus anymore, other wants a Fleshlight, another possibly knocked up his friend with benefits. Anyone else got some dirty laundry to air? :whistling:

It's been a slow year.
 
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kingrob

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The fact that all the guys will now jump at the opportunity of trying their luck with her is so painful.

I sound pathetic but just how i feel. Need advice for getting over this/her.

Advice would be appreciated

It's not easy & will hurt like hell, but I'm sure you will find the right one down the road.

Be clever and delete her phone number from your phone, otherwise you WILL drunk dial her and you WILL make things even worse for yourself.

Good luck!
 
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