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Gf's Past Bother you?
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No. And here's why.
It's none of your business.
Plain and simple. If it does bother you, I'd recommend talking to her about it now, so that you can ruin the relationship you have now instead of later. It'll hurt less for you both.
Why? Easy. What is in the past is in the past. If she had the entire Soccer team up her at one point, who are you to judge her on her one weak moment? You're her choice now. So if you can't get over that, then it's not worth going on in this relationship.
Time to nut up or shut up.
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To the OP, do this if you're worried about catching any nasties... it should be a given in any relationship that starts having intercourse.
To chrissy, I think the OP is more worried about the amount of dicks his girlfriend has seen than the actual bugs she could be carrying.
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ahaha bull
Ofc its your bussiness if your really serious with someone every detail about them is your business.
If she had everyone on the block lets see how proud you are of your gf when you hold her hand and go for a walk ahahhaha.
Im not talking about my gf she doesn't have much of a sexual past being homeschooled she only kissed other dudes and was only allowed to date (with her parents knowledge) after her 18th birthday.
Our past experiences make us who we are you are judged by the choices you make.
How is it dealt with? Time travel.
How about speaking about it , breaking up,understanding etc etc.I mean lets say her past bf's are guys most women will run after wouldn't you feel as if she is comparing you to them or something cause thats how I feel.
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Oh and BTW, if she trusts you enough to tell you her sexual past then you shouldn't be worried about it in the first place, she thought you'd be more mature about it.
FYI, I don't ask questions about it either. If she wants to tell me, awesome. But then she just has to deal with me asking a billion questions about it. To me, the more detail the less to worry about. Just because I like to have a clear picture which allows me to do stuff to her that I wouldn't normally do
Anyway... it shouldn't bother you at all. Just get tested (both of you) before sex. It's the new way to ask her to go steady.
FYI, I don't ask questions about it either. If she wants to tell me, awesome. But then she just has to deal with me asking a billion questions about it. To me, the more detail the less to worry about. Just because I like to have a clear picture which allows me to do stuff to her that I wouldn't normally do
Anyway... it shouldn't bother you at all. Just get tested (both of you) before sex. It's the new way to ask her to go steady.
If she's the right girl for you nothing in her past will matter. If you care so much about what other people think rather work on yourself that worry about your girls mileage.
She'll lie of course. All women do. It's natural, good and wholesome. Just like sex.
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Exactly, our past makes us who we are. So if she made a mistake and learned from it, why would it bother me that much?
If I was walking down the street with my gf who had every guy on that block, I'd be mighty impressed that she kept me around and not one of those bozo's.
Like Waaib tried to say, time travel would be the only solution to this problem. By going back in time and undoing what she did.
Stop acting like a <18yo pls. I hope you're not... else I'll report you for breaking forum rules
Whats gotten up ur ar$e hole? this is a discussion go vent ur sexual frustration elsewhere.You would be impressed? hahah your nothing different from them , actually ill be impressed if she chose me to be the only guy to sleep with, you got your logic twisted like your panties.
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+1 I forgot to mention that in my response just now
She'll lie of course. All women do. It's natural, good and wholesome.
There's a difference between lying and omitting the truth (both essentially lying) and women love doing that. That's why, if she does tell me, I'll ask her a bunch of questions. Most people aren't good enough liars to remember the lie the previously told, so in the end I can quickly assess if she lied to me about it or if she was telling the truth, and not just made something up. Loved catching my exgf lying about something and pointing out to her that she just contradicted herself. Got more truth that way.
ANYWAY. Point is, if she tells you her past with the idea of finding out more about your past, I'd say go for it. It's a trust thing.
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lol, in the case of my ex, she said 4, she meant 13... eish
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Lol, ooh, epic thread in progress