Gf's Past Bother you?

Tamerlane said:
ahahah mileage ! shes a virgin :D but ye you right.
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OH.... by sexual past you meant - how many people has she kissed or held hands with! In that case she's lying to you already - you lucky dog you.
 
Tamerlane said:
ahahah mileage ! shes a virgin :D but ye you right.
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Believe what you want: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/wor...Egyptians-want-to-ban-fake-virginity-kit.html

Tamerlane said:
Whats gotten up ur ar$e hole? this is a discussion go vent ur sexual frustration elsewhere.You would be impressed? hahah your nothing different from them , actually ill be impressed if she chose me to be the only guy to sleep with, you got your logic twisted like your panties.
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Aw, look at him/her getting all insulty because I called it younger than 18yo... lol
 
It does bother me... and I think that if I had slept with a lot of women I think that it would bother my partner.

The fact is that niether of us have... so its fine.


I have had GF's have have had more partners and even lied about how many. I think that the lies bother me not the amount of partners but if a chick has slept with more than 10 guys she is bound to lie about it.

If a lady told me that she had been with 50 guys, no amount of tests would put my mind at ease. I think its got to do with the way you choose partners and how long you wait to have sex with them, if you banged 50 guys then you have to ask what kind of men does she sleep with ? how long does she wait before she sleeps with them ? Why is she sleeping with you ?
 
Waaib said:
OH.... by sexual past you meant - how many people has she kissed or held hands with! In that case she's lying to you already - you lucky dog you.
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The reason I asked the question is because I had this problem with an ex , not the current gf.
 
Is your concern more around what she has done or more around how much of it she hsa done?

I totally agree with AcidRaZor but there is a distinction in the case that it is something that she has done in the past that bothers you as this might indicate that there are deeper incompatibility that could leave you both unfulfilled and/or hurt.
 
Nerfherder said:
It does bother me... and I think that if I had slept with a lot of women I think that it would bother my partner.

The fact is that niether of us have... so its fine.


I have had GF's have have had more partners and even lied about how many. I think that the lies bother me not the amount of partners but if a chick has slept with more than 10 guys she is bound to lie about it.

If a lady told me that she had been with 50 guys, no amount of tests would put my mind at ease. I think its got to do with the way you choose partners and how long you wait to have sex with them, if you banged 50 guys then you have to ask what kind of men does she sleep with ? how long does she wait before she sleeps with them ? Why is she sleeping with you ?
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Of course there's extremes. And I'll agree with you, it would bother me as well. But porn-stars needs love too. And if you're too uptight about it you'll never be able to exclaim with proud chest sticking out "My gf is a porn-star!" :p

Like I said, people make ****ty choices. She may have daddy issues and sleep with 3 guys a week to help her fill the empty space (da-dum-dish for ambiguity!)

Doesn't mean that when she does come across you, being the knight in shining armor she always dreamed of, that she'd still be doing the same thing to 3 other guys while she's dating you... I'm just saying, people can change (and should be afforded the opportunity to)
 
SlinkyMike said:
Well, ****.

I actually flinched when I read that!

WTF did you say to that dude?
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What else could I say? *shrugs*

It went on for another 4 months (while I knew she was cheating emotionally with several guys on facebook and mxit) before I eventually told her it's over when she acted like a bitch while I was taking her to a sunset picnic on top of Paarl Berg by the Taalmonument.

Even after that got lucky a few times with her being the one unsure about "us" and then "getting back together".

In the end she told me she couldn't be with someone that had a "tappit" family like mine.

I was like, "WTF?"

Anyway, yea... beautiful as she is, she's broken.
 
Tamerlane said:
Hahaha No shes really is a virgin .I know for a fact :D anyway, if da gf had alot of guys doesn't it mean that your nothing new?
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Depends on what skills you can bring to the table ;)

Love is a strange thing. It can make your dick 10 meters long and 3 meters wide to her. So it really doesn't matter what either of you did in your past or not. Love is key.
 
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