Gf's Past Bother you?

Happy Camper said:
You are worried about your virgin gf's sexual past? WTF?? :erm:
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No dude nt the current one was a major problem with my ex gf,Another problem is her ex bf's don't you feel as if your compared to him by her friends and family ?
 
Tamerlane said:
:sick:
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You'd be suprised how many women think like that, especially if they're young and inexperienced. Because they'll go "What if there's something better out there"

And trust me, a lot of guys think the same way too.

Of my 3 best friends, 2 of them married their virgin girlfriends. I think 1 of them lost his virginity to her virginity thing as well... but that, to me, happens rarely.

I did ask both of them if they were, at any point, unsure about things. And they did admit they were, but they also admit they were in love with their husbands.

And like I said, that makes a world of difference. Good luck though. And remember, you can break her hymen with fingering, so keep to the clit, it's usually best unless you know where the gspot is...
 
Tamerlane said:
No dude nt the current one was a major problem with my ex gf,Another problem is her ex bf's don't you feel as if your compared to him by her friends and family ?
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Sometimes it does feel that way, but you have to remember that this is your time to shine :)

So bring your uniqueness to the table and show them how awesome you are. That way they won't even try to compare you...
 
Waaib said:
She'll lie of course. All women do. It's natural, good and wholesome. Just like sex. ;) .
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lol - reminds me of some comedian I heard once - Something like... If a guy says he's had 25 women you need to divide by 5 to get the actual amount - If a girl says she's only had 5 men then you need to multiply by 5 ;)
 
AcidRaZor said:
Of course there's extremes. And I'll agree with you, it would bother me as well. But porn-stars needs love too. And if you're too uptight about it you'll never be able to exclaim with proud chest sticking out "My gf is a porn-star!" :p

Like I said, people make ****ty choices. She may have daddy issues and sleep with 3 guys a week to help her fill the empty space (da-dum-dish for ambiguity!)

Doesn't mean that when she does come across you, being the knight in shining armor she always dreamed of, that she'd still be doing the same thing to 3 other guys while she's dating you... I'm just saying, people can change (and should be afforded the opportunity to)
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True... I'm not saying I woun't hit it but it might bother me. People do change but understanding a bit of their history might protect you from a lot of heartache.

Also if she has been banging the same dude for like 10 years its also going to be a bit of an issue... I'm a believer in gaps between relationshipsm.

Oh and this only applies to someone you plan on dating... if you are going to have a one night stand then very little matters bar a condom.
 
Tamerlane said:
Ye the problem is with me im super jealous and short tempered!
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Be careful of that. 2 qualities women despise.

It's okay to be jealous, but jealous to the point of "Where were you the last 5 seconds while you weren't chatting to me on mxit!" is kind of "psycho"

So watch out.
 
Nerfherder said:
True... I'm not saying I woun't hit it but it might bother me. People do change but understanding a bit of their history might protect you from a lot of heartache.

Also if she has been banging the same dude for like 10 years its also going to be a bit of an issue... I'm a believer in gaps between relationshipsm.

Oh and this only applies to someone you plan on dating... if you are going to have a one night stand then very little matters bar a condom.
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Yea, and you'd be surprised how many women don't count 1 night stands when discussing this topic...
 
AcidRaZor said:
You'd be suprised how many women think like that, especially if they're young and inexperienced. Because they'll go "What if there's something better out there"

And trust me, a lot of guys think the same way too.

Of my 3 best friends, 2 of them married their virgin girlfriends. I think 1 of them lost his virginity to her virginity thing as well... but that, to me, happens rarely.

I did ask both of them if they were, at any point, unsure about things. And they did admit they were, but they also admit they were in love with their husbands.

And like I said, that makes a world of difference. Good luck though. And remember, you can break her hymen with fingering, so keep to the clit, it's usually best unless you know where the gspot is...
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Ok I see . Im not a virgin been with one other chick only and she knows it but it doesn't bother her anymore.Shes a virgin and she wants to marry me and she said she will sleep with me if i cant wait but she would also like to wait.

I don't think ill wait to make love cause making love just brings two ppl so much closer.
 
Tamerlane said:
Ye the problem is with me im super jealous and short tempered!
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Maybe that is part of teh problem then, but really, worrying what other people think of you is always going to bother you, irrelevant of who or what you are with at that current time. Work on your self esteem a bit, trust yourself. If the current GF brings out these bad things in you then perhaps she is not the one for you? Why be so serious anyway, you sound youngish, there's plenty time to **** around ;)
 
Happy Camper said:
Maybe that is part of teh problem then, but really, worrying what other people think of you is always going to bother you, irrelevant of who or what you are with at that current time. Work on your self esteem a bit, trust yourself. If the current GF brings out these bad things in you then perhaps she is not the one for you? Why be so serious anyway, you sound youngish, there's plenty time to **** around ;)
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ye just turned 20 thats the thing lol i don't want to sleep around I just want one girl its more special that way IMO.
 
My current girlfriend had a dodgy past... She had a lot of guys, not going all the way, but almost everything up to that point.
We are now together, talked a bit about her past, bit I don't really want to hear about it, it is the PAST.
We hang out at the same places she picked up all the guys and I don't mind it... At least she stays with me, where they had her for a night or two at most.
Man, my GF sounds like a bit of a slut now... my bad, she isn't...
 
My current girlfriend had a dodgy past... She had a lot of guys, not going all the way, but almost everything up to that point.
We are now together, talked a bit about her past, bit I don't really want to hear about it, it is the PAST.
We hang out at the same places she picked up all the guys and I don't mind it... At least she stays with me, where they had her for a night or two at most.
Man, my GF sounds like a bit of a slut now... my bad, she isn't...
 
Dude, Im not being nasty - BUT 20 is too young to be soo emotional about 1 chick. Its guys who have only been with 1 or 2 chicks their entire lives that start to fool around on their wives when they hit 40+, and thats not cool.

You in your twenties - there will never be another time like it. Nail everything that moves (be safe of course) and when you ready to settle down, you will never have any regrets.
 
Sapcat said:
Dude, Im not being nasty - BUT 20 is too young to be soo emotional about 1 chick. Its guys who have only been with 1 or 2 chicks their entire lives that start to fool around on their wives when they hit 40+, and thats not cool.

You in your twenties - there will never be another time like it. Nail everything that moves (be safe of course) and when you ready to settle down, you will never have any regrets.
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Not everyone is like that... I know a couple of guys that are married to their first girlfriends... Some of my parents friends are high school sweethearts and still together...
 
StellenboschStudent said:
My current girlfriend had a dodgy past... She had a lot of guys, not going all the way, but almost everything up to that point.
We are now together, talked a bit about her past, bit I don't really want to hear about it, it is the PAST.
We hang out at the same places she picked up all the guys and I don't mind it... At least she stays with me, where they had her for a night or two at most.
Man, my GF sounds like a bit of a slut now... my bad, she isn't...
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Tough one... but I still rate that actual sex is different. Its much worse if she had slept with all those guys.
 
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