Gf's Past Bother you?

Didn't read most of the replies here but will add my 2c worth anyway.

Picture the thing that could upset you the most about what may lie in her closet, ask her about her past, discover that what you pictured has got sweet fanny adams on what she actually got up to her in her past and that you can't handle it, have a fight about something that has got jack schitt to do with you and move on.

There is stuff in everyone's past that we want to keep in our past and you have to respect that. The fact that you are now in a relationship does not entitle you to know every damned thing about your partner, respect their privacy and let them tell you when they are ready if they are ready. Prying about einas in your partner's past will only fsck things up.
 
AcidRaZor said:
If I was walking down the street with my gf who had every guy on that block, I'd be mighty impressed that she kept me around and not one of those bozo's.
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Maybe it's because you have money or some other reason that benefits her?

My girlfriend was slutty - dated her anyway for a few years and loved/cared more than you imagine. She (I think) changed during that time and slept with (I think) only me. You know, all girls bull**** and hide, so I couldn't be 100% sure.

Anyway - 3 years down the line she got hooked on meth and did everyone. Sex is a weapon From what I hear now, she's super easy. Just a fun thing to do when you're bored. I think she's on about 60+ men in her 10 years.

Now I'm just so happy that she's with the other bozo rather than me - although she SMS's every 2 or so weeks telling me she misses me and cares for me ... oh, and also can I transfer money to her account.
 
StellenboschStudent said:
My current girlfriend had a dodgy past... She had a lot of guys, not going all the way, but almost everything up to that point.
We are now together, talked a bit about her past, bit I don't really want to hear about it, it is the PAST.
We hang out at the same places she picked up all the guys and I don't mind it... At least she stays with me, where they had her for a night or two at most.
Man, my GF sounds like a bit of a slut now... my bad, she isn't...
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Maybe you should compare notes and see who has the highest score. Oh, wait, it's OK for a guy to do it ... r-i-g-h-t ...!!
 
Dolby said:
Maybe it's because you have money or some other reason that benefits her?

My girlfriend was slutty - dated her anyway for a few years and loved/cared more than you imagine. She (I think) changed during that time and slept with (I think) only me. You know, all girls bull**** and hide, so I couldn't be 100% sure.

Anyway - 3 years down the line she got hooked on meth and did everyone. Sex is a weapon From what I hear now, she's super easy. Just a fun thing to do when you're bored. I think she's on about 60+ men in her 10 years.

Now I'm just so happy that she's with the other bozo rather than me - although she SMS's every 2 or so weeks telling me she misses me and cares for me ... oh, and also can I transfer money to her account.
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No offence, but lonley nights would make me go "Sure I'll EFT you some cash, just come over and suck my dick for a while"

*shrug*

Some gals are crazy. I guess their similarities makes them unique in the way that we don't know what to expect.

Women say the darndest things :rolleyes:
 
AcidRaZor said:
No offence, but lonley nights would make me go "Sure I'll EFT you some cash, just come over and suck my dick for a while"
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... and be where 60 other guys have been - drugs addicts etc etc? I think I'll rather remain lonely for that night than risk it.

A few months ago when that was offered, I said, 'rather take the money and leave'.

The only girl I've been with that I needed TWO HIV/STD tests with a 12 month period.
 
AcidRaZor said:
No. And here's why.

It's none of your business.

Plain and simple. If it does bother you, I'd recommend talking to her about it now, so that you can ruin the relationship you have now instead of later. It'll hurt less for you both.

Why? Easy. What is in the past is in the past. If she had the entire Soccer team up her at one point, who are you to judge her on her one weak moment? You're her choice now. So if you can't get over that, then it's not worth going on in this relationship.

Time to nut up or shut up.
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That's the problem , if she slept with an entire rugby team or soccer team then what will stop her from doing it again? Hence the reason why i wanna know her past, and if she has enjoyed too many different "sausages" then it will bother me, and i wouldn't date such a woman. But most women lie about the number of men they have slept with because they are afraid to be judged by their boyfriend, and they are also ashamed of their past, which is why they lie about the number of different beds they've slept on.
 
Sly21C said:
and they are also ashamed of their past, which is why they lie about the number of different beds they've slept on.
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Lots brag about it too.

If they were ashamed of being a slut then or known as a slut, they shouldn't do it.
 
Dolby said:
... and be where 60 other guys have been - drugs addicts etc etc? I think I'll rather remain lonely for that night than risk it.

A few months ago when that was offered, I said, 'rather take the money and leave'.

The only girl I've been with that I needed TWO HIV/STD tests with a 12 month period.
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Ye the blow job is not worth it.. you can still get diseases from that... also you know how it is, you get half way through the blowjob and all of a sudden the full house gets put on the table.:o

Not worth it
 
My opinion to original question.

If it bothers you, talk to her about it.
This used to bother me, not anymore.
I realized that my past aint any better than hers.

I told myself: stop being a ***** man...

It worked :D

Everyone does wrong, we are all equal.
 
I want a GTI said:
Yes it bothers me. It cant be dealt with. To hell with her. She made the mistakes. Now too bad
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Why would it be a mistake if SHE did it, but if it was you it would've been okay?

If your dick's that small that it bothers you that she now has a mental "size-o-meter"...
...ag shame.

What's the big deal guys? As long as you know that she will at least be honest with you and has been tested, you're better off knowing she's at least not a prude. They're the ones I'd stay away from. I'd rather try harder and risk not living upto someone's expectations than die of boredom.
 
mk1 said:
My opinion to original question.

If it bothers you, talk to her about it.
This used to bother me, not anymore.
I realized that my past aint any better than hers.

I told myself: stop being a ***** man...

It worked :D

Everyone does wrong, we are all equal.
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+1
\takes hat off
 
The only thing one should be concerned about is if she is Lady A. Lady B seems okay. It's A that is the problem. Anything else is (pardon the expression) opening up pandora's box
 
GreGorGy said:
The only thing one should be concerned about is if she is Lady A. Lady B seems okay. It's A that is the problem. Anything else is (pardon the expression) opening up pandora's box
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:confused::confused:Wrong thread.
Btw. what happened to that one?
 
#68 09-11-2009, 09:15 PM
Sly21C

That's the problem , if she slept with an entire rugby team or soccer team then what will stop her from doing it again?
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If it was Bafana Bafana or the Lions, I wouldnt worry.....they cant score anyways :D
 
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