Girlfriend advice

[buyeye]

Loser manages to snag a girl willing to put up with him after 30 years by some miracle. Finally starts getting laid. Loser suddenly thinks he is Cassanova who can get any flange he wants. Loser dumps girl to go chase skirt. Loser takes another 30 years to get laid again.

Pretty much how this story ends.

Don't be an idiot Los, er, OP.

It may seem harsh but it's true.

 

[AthenianOwl]

Loser manages to snag a girl willing to put up with him after 30 years by some miracle. Finally starts getting laid. Loser suddenly thinks he is Cassanova who can get any flange he wants. Loser dumps girl to go chase skirt. Loser takes another 30 years to get laid again.

Pretty much how this story ends.

Don't be an idiot Los, er, OP.

LOL! You've nailed it.

 

[Jola]

Loser manages to snag a girl willing to put up with him after 30 years by some miracle. Finally starts getting laid. Loser suddenly thinks he is Cassanova who can get any flange he wants. Loser dumps girl to go chase skirt. Loser takes another 30 years to get laid again.

Pretty much how this story ends.

That ^

 

[WaxLyrical]

If she can stop bullets in mid air fired by Cyber Agents then she is the one.

Otherwise just hit and run.

 

[Kornhub]

If she is the 'one' you will know in time. You will just know that is all I can say :/

 

[Hamster]

If she is the 'one' you will know in time. You will just know that is all I can say :/

You'll think you know

 

[Azbubu]

If you stay with her you're just going to end up resenting her for thinking that she prevented you from being with other girls.

 

[Zewp]

That's easy, she isn't. No woman is. It's the biggest misconception guys have - that somewhere out there, after they've had fun with dozens of women, there is some magic ultimate partner who's been thoughtful enough to stay a virgin and all along has been saving herself for you.

Why do you hate your own gender so much?

 

[Neoprod]

How do I know she is the one?

1. No such thing.
2. What Arthur said.
3. It might still go wrong but at least you'll both be in a position to have an honest conversation about where you stand when the inevitable rough patches come up.

sorry, dude...there are no guarantees in this world. Just be open and honest...she's going to have to deal with your crap the same way you're going to have to deal with hers.

 

[SauRoNZA]

Her being "The One" has more to do with you than anything about her really.

"The One" is that person you are willing to make compromises for, while everyone else gets the my way or the highway treatment.

The one is the person you want to change yourself for to make them happier, not change them to make yourself happier.

So ask not if she is the one, ask yourself if you will make her the one.

 

[Ninja'd]

Masturbate thoroughly before going to see your girlfriend. If you are still so into her after all that then maybe she's the one for you.

You are already dead inside.

Dick of the North Star

 

[satanboy]

. I also still look at other girls a lot.

That will never stop. I've been married for 26 years and still look.

 

[satanboy]

You are already dead inside.

Maybe Jesus can save him.

 

[I.am.Sam]

That will never stop. I've been married for 26 years and still look.

cause thats all you can do

 

[heartbroken]

Maybe Jesus can save him.

IDK, he will have to admit that masturbation is a sin. Remember sexual fantasies about someone you are not married to are, as Jesus stated, "adultery of the heart."

 

[Ninja'd]

cause thats all you can do

Pot, meet Kettle.

 

[Maverick Jester]

Once you start evaluating her in terms of your wants and requirements and whether she delivers for you, you've fatally sabotaged both your and her happiness. By doing so you make the relationship all about you and your wants. I guarantee that no-one can deliver.

It's not. Quite the reverse. For both of you.

Rather ask yourself: Can I see myself loving and serving and spending myself for this woman, putting her wants and needs and safety and good before mine? Answering that requires getting to know her well, and that takes time. If you jump the gun and enjoy the fruits of marriage before you've made the irrevocable commitment to mutual lifelong fidelity, what's to stop you or her from doing the same again with someone else in the future? Few pains are more agonizing than a heart broken in love. There's a simple check only you can answer in your own heart, and it requires self-knowledge and brutal honesty: Is her happiness more important to you than your own? Until you can unequivocally say yes, you're not ready to cement the bond. And of course she needs to do the same.

QFT.

 

[TofuMofu]

IDK, he will have to admit that masturbation is a sin. Remember sexual fantasies about someone you are not married to are, as Jesus stated, "adultery of the heart."

What?

Then I'm fscked...oh well *masturbates furiously*

 

[TJ99]

Why do you hate your own gender so much?

SJW's hate everything about themselves. Their gender, their race, their bodies, their ancestors etc.

Didn't you use to be one until quite recently?

OP: There is no "the one". Unless she can stop bullets in mid-air as someone already said. And that you'd find out by going to see an old lady in her kitchen and breaking her vase.

It's a difficult situation to be in, always wondering whether you'd get another girl that you might be happy with. You just have to make up your own mind.

The "looking at other girls" thing, that will never stop. If it does there's something wrong with you. We are biologically programmed to notice pretty people.

 

[TJ99]

What?

Then I'm fscked...oh well *masturbates furiously*

This explains why religious people are so uptight all the time. You're not allowed to have sex with anyone unless you're married (yeah, that's a brilliant idea), and you're not allowed to jack off to release the tension either. In some of them you're not allowed to use condoms either and of course abortions are also a sin. Sounds like a nice recipe for breeding armies of new little followers, ready to be indoctrinated.