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Well there are other health benefits too, agreed these can be cured by proper hygiene but given the living conditions of a lot of people this isn't always an option.
Show me a report where having a foreskin have more health benefits than not having one please, I can't seem to find one.
Also, on the subject of child mutilation, what do you feel about parents having their kids ear's pierced at a young age?
That is hardly the same thing now is it. Your ears will close up once the earing is removed. You try and grow a foreskin and see how far you get.
Yes agreed but it's still mutilation without the child consent. Done is poor conditions (at home with a block of ice and a sewing needle perhaps) it could have disastrous effects due to infection.
And what age for a son?This I agree with. If I had a daughter I would wait untill she is at least 12 or so and then she can have her ears pierced if she wanted. But comparing piercing of a childs ear (no matter the age) to slicing a baby boy's foreskin off is not cool. Just how I see it.
There's really no comparison. What if my child cuts his knee on my driveway which I've failed to have thoroughly sterilised?Yes agreed but it's still mutilation without the child consent. Done is poor conditions (at home with a block of ice and a sewing needle perhaps) it could have disastrous effects due to infection.
Yes agreed but it's still mutilation without the child consent. Done is poor conditions (at home with a block of ice and a sewing needle perhaps) it could have disastrous effects due to infection.
Agreed but it is reversible. That is very important.
So far you have provided no valid reasoning for having a circumcision that demonstrates that we shouldn't be waiting for the individual's consent.
I didn't know I had to. Isn't the procedure more difficult and risky at a later age?
You do have to if you're trying to side with circumcision in any logical fashion.
You have to offer me some reason to do it earlier rather than later. Something that is going to effect that child's life to the point where it justifies infringing on the child's right to autonomy. So far I have never encountered a single person that can offer me a valid reason.
Cost? Inconvenience? Healing period? Surely these are things which are less significant if the child is younger?
Not a valid reason for violating human rights. If you think it is I would argue that it is far cheaper for me to have a slave so I will now violate your right to freedom because it costs me less. Awesome!Cost?
Not a valid reason for violating human rights (the child may later decide he doesn't want a circumcision in which case you have actually caused inconvenience)Inconvenience?
What now babies heal faster than children old enough to make their own choices? Where do you get this?Healing period?
Nope.Surely these are things which are less significant if the child is younger?
Not a valid reason for violating human rights. If you think it is I would argue that it is far cheaper for me to have a slave so I will now violate your right to freedom because it costs me less. Awesome!
Not a valid reason for violating human rights (the child may later decide he doesn't want a circumcision in which case you have actually caused inconvenience)
What now babies heal faster than children old enough to make their own choices? Where do you get this?
Nope.
So it is cheaper to mutilate your child while a baby? No no no...that is no excuse.
You haven't been able to demonstrate how exactly it is in the child's best interest. What benefit is the child going to get from the circumcision? Is your baby going to be having unprotected sex before he is old enough to decide on his own? Nope... so the HIV thing isn't a benefit... what exactly is the benefit for this child?!? Name ONE thing!How is it violating human right when you are doing it in the child's best interest?
Yes I would still have a problem with it because there is no hygiene issue. Just teach your kid to wash properly for fscks sake and there is no need to cut the end of his penis off.Or is it do with your dislike of religion. If religious reasons were taking off the table and the circucision was done purely for hygienic reasons, would you have a problem with it?
Well let's assume in this scenario that the operation is done by a certified surgeon, not some looney mom with a box cutter.
How is it violating human right when you are doing it in the child's best interest?
You haven't been able to demonstrate how exactly it is in the child's best interest. What benefit is the child going to get from the circumcision? Is your baby going to be having unprotected sex before he is old enough to decide on his own? Nope... so the HIV thing isn't a benefit... what exactly is the benefit for this child?!? Name ONE thing!
The only time it is acceptable to violate the child's right to autonomy is when the decision is going to drastically alter the child's quality of life and it can't wait. Circumcision doesn't qualify.
Then WHY are you doing it before the kid is old enough to decide for himself?!? Why are taking his choice away for absolutely no benefit to him? It makes absolutely no sense.There probably aren't any.
So you have a problem with someone being able to weigh up the pros and cons on his own? This is supposed to be a bad thing?Issue though is by the time the kid has the choice to make whether or not he wants to keep his foreskin he would already have weighed up all the negative aspects to the procedure (pain etc) vs. aspects he hasn't had to deal with yet (higher chance of stds etc).
Personal attack. Really classy. Is this how your mother raised you?What you get (which I'm assuming you are) is a snotty teenager who is angry at his folks for 'mutilating' his body for what they thought was a better choice at the time.
There probably aren't any. Issue though is by the time the kid has the choice to make whether or not he wants to keep his foreskin he would already have weighed up all the negative aspects to the procedure (pain etc) vs. aspects he hasn't had to deal with yet (higher chance of stds etc). What you get (which I'm assuming you are) is a snotty teenager who is angry at his folks for 'mutilating' his body for what they thought was a better choice at the time.