I know you probably know more than me about this modding stuff, but I'm pretty sure an S3 can take a stage 2 map with no hardware for the same price as a stage 1 map.
From which tuner?
Revo stg2 K04 map - required = decat or highflow cat with 3" downpipe and low-restriction intake.
Revo 1 to 2 increment is R500.
As to the guys who are ridiculing "stages"... did you not think perhaps that the games drew their inspiration from real life?
I'll speak for Revo as I know their products best.
Stock map on the K04 VAG TFSI engine requests about 0.9 bar boost.
Revo produce 2 levels of upgrade for the stock turbo. The first level requests about 1.1 bar, the second level 1.3 bar.
So it makes sense to call the first level upgrade Stage 1. You can do it with no hardware mods.
The second level, well, stage 2 makes sense no?
And since you're now boosting quite a bit higher than stock, your airflow requirements through the engine are a lot higher than stock - and this is why you need a less restrictive intake (to get the air in without stressing the turbo) and to get the exhaust out (without stressing the exhaust manifold and other components).
There's another upgrade (stage 2+) which produces slightly more power but a lot more torque, and for this you need an uprated high-pressure fuel pump.