How Off limits is your gf?

Tamerlane said:
I don't mean to be spamming this section im just very curious about how other guys feel about the girls they are with , what woud your reaction be if a guy called you gf a bitch at work or school , or if a guy constantly flirted with her , what would you do , kick their ass , phone them threaten them , kick your gf ass lol , do nothing etc etc.

thnx.
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I personally view jealousy as a weak emotion. Jealousy, and again this is just my view, stems from insecurity and lack of trust. If you were secure in your relationship and trusted your partner you should not feel jealousy.

Feeling the need to kick someone's ass in your girlfriend's defence seems to confirm this insecurity as it seems to reek of the need to prove oneself as creatures do in the animal world. "I will kick his ass to show my GF what a man I am". Some girls are unfortunately still impressed by this but they are not the type of girl I'd want to associate with. We are supposed to be more evolved than that.

I treat my GF as an equal. I do not feel she needs me to defend her. She is fully capable, and empowered, to do so herself. Obviously if she was in physical danger I would intervene but if some guy called her a bitch, I'd expect her to be able to handle that herself. If she was not happy with the flirting, I'd expect her to state as much to the individual.
 
i won't bother about it... unless she's the 'wild type' lol
 
You don't trust her if you're jealous. And usually, if some guy is flirting, I take it as a compliment for myself, cause I've got the girl, he doesn't.
 
gdiza said:
Tamerlane, how old are you? 12?
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Yeah, I can't understand him either...

To start with, he's the first guy I know that needs an instruction manual to have sex, and now he's curious about how he should react when his girlfriend has a minor altercation with another dude.

Tamberlane, grow a set of balls and make choices on the spot. If you wanna give the guy *** about an argument with "your girl", then do it. If you scared, then let it slide.
 
I dont need to do anything, my woman can look after herself, and would tell any guy thats flirting with her that they are wasting their time.
 
Dude..I would of flipped out if someone swore at my gf.

Flirting guys compliment you dude :D
 
I actually agree with Lancelot. Your chick doesn't need you to treat her like a withering flower. How's a woman supposed to have any self esteem if her boyfriend has to be her backbone and speak for her.

Its the pissy insecure boys who get so touchy about their women. If you chirped my wife she would bite your head off and then shove it up your butt, all without smudging her make up.

Chicks who NEED constant affirmation and hand holding to feel good about themselves are the insecure ones who become nagging, jealous women anyway.

However, if someone told her to F off or called her a C * nt then I would have my say, but bitch is used so loosely these days.
 
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