Captain_Amazing
Active Member
There are certain rules on dating that have not been documented but every guy should know, but unfortunately it isn’t so. Below are some tips on how to approach a female (or male, whatever tickles your fancy) and getting a date.
1. If the woman you would like to approach is part of a group of women, do not approach the group and give her all the attention. Make a conversation with all the women and don’t sideline any of them. This will make you get a sense of how she is and then later on you can chat with her alone. Hope you do not connect with one whom you were not hunting for. But either way you are winning, right?
2. If you just met her somewhere like the bus stop, do not hit on her! Yes, do not make it obvious what your intentions are. Start a casual conversation and have a conversation about any general topic. If it is someone who you will more likely see again, do not ask for her number the first time you guys converse.
3. Don’t be intimidated! Just because she is taller than you or seems out of your league doesn’t mean she will look down on you. Women are quite aware of how they intimidate men, impress her by being confident enough to step up to her. If you never try, you’ll never know.
4. Focus on what works for you. Not every guy is a wordsmith so maybe your poor linguistics and non-existent sense of humor won’t get you a successful hunt. Focus on things like your confidence or whatever you have working for you. If you are a great dresser, be well-dressed.
5. Pay attention to her and the things around her. You can learn a lot from her by the book she is holding or the cellphone she has. Her books might let you know if she is spiritual, adventurous or political. Her cellphone might let you know that she is not a tech person if she is still using a V300 or an HTC one but can’t even set up a Gmail address on it. This will help you know which topics to discuss.
6. Do not call her on the first day you get her digits, even worse, don’t send her a whatsapp text before you have even called. Make sure you have a lot of telephonic conversations compared to whatsapp texts, SMS is better. Something about whatsapp texts just shouts: “Hey, I’m a cheapskate.”
That's all for now, can't divulge all my secrets at once !
1. If the woman you would like to approach is part of a group of women, do not approach the group and give her all the attention. Make a conversation with all the women and don’t sideline any of them. This will make you get a sense of how she is and then later on you can chat with her alone. Hope you do not connect with one whom you were not hunting for. But either way you are winning, right?
2. If you just met her somewhere like the bus stop, do not hit on her! Yes, do not make it obvious what your intentions are. Start a casual conversation and have a conversation about any general topic. If it is someone who you will more likely see again, do not ask for her number the first time you guys converse.
3. Don’t be intimidated! Just because she is taller than you or seems out of your league doesn’t mean she will look down on you. Women are quite aware of how they intimidate men, impress her by being confident enough to step up to her. If you never try, you’ll never know.
4. Focus on what works for you. Not every guy is a wordsmith so maybe your poor linguistics and non-existent sense of humor won’t get you a successful hunt. Focus on things like your confidence or whatever you have working for you. If you are a great dresser, be well-dressed.
5. Pay attention to her and the things around her. You can learn a lot from her by the book she is holding or the cellphone she has. Her books might let you know if she is spiritual, adventurous or political. Her cellphone might let you know that she is not a tech person if she is still using a V300 or an HTC one but can’t even set up a Gmail address on it. This will help you know which topics to discuss.
6. Do not call her on the first day you get her digits, even worse, don’t send her a whatsapp text before you have even called. Make sure you have a lot of telephonic conversations compared to whatsapp texts, SMS is better. Something about whatsapp texts just shouts: “Hey, I’m a cheapskate.”
That's all for now, can't divulge all my secrets at once !
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