I cannot get my thing up!

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Sly21C

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No Erection!

Hey guys!

I don't know if a similar thread was created or not. And I am actually embarrased to tell you guys this but I guess it's something that we have to talk about it.

I'm 23, my girlfriend and I started having sex 2 months ago, it was great at first and we didn't have problems up until a week ago as I couldn't get it up anymore. I think it could be stress but I'll have to go and see someone.

I've heard that herbs such as Guarana, Ginseng and Ginkgo Biloba are helpful as far as improving blood circulation and increasing one's libido, is this true?

Is going to mens clinic international and asking for their advice the best option? Or is there something else that I can do?

Please help!!!

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Eh, you sure she isnt the problem? If not, then I cannot help you - I have not had this issue without recreational **** help and I dont know of anyone apart from my grandfather who has experienced this. I have heard stress can be a factor.

My knowledge of this topic is limited to what they can cram in during the sexual help adverts on 702 in the morning! Good luck, go see a doc.

marine1 and I are in agreement again :eek: He must be coming to his senses finally :D
 
Good lord - just saw you are 23.
At 23 I had a hard (harhar) time keeping it DOWN.
 
Sly21C said:
No Erection!

Hey guys!

I don't know if a similar thread was created or not. And I am actually embarrased to tell you guys this but I guess it's something that we have to talk about it.

I'm 23, my girlfriend and I started having sex 2 months ago, it was great at first and we didn't have problems up until a week ago as I couldn't get it up anymore. I think it could be stress but I'll have to go and see someone.

I've heard that herbs such as Guarana, Ginseng and Ginkgo Biloba are helpful as far as improving blood circulation and increasing one's libido, is this true?

Is going to mens clinic international and asking for their advice the best option? Or is there something else that I can do?

Please help!!!

:(
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Any Medication you're routinely taking or have started in the past few months? Any recreational drugs you're using? Is there a history of impotence in your family?
 
xrapidx said:
www.menshealth.co.za

Its expensive though... about a R80 - R100 a pill :p

Long story how I know... :)
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Oh come on! You cant keep opening doors like that for me guy! It just isnt fair on yourself. So I shall reserve my "That's because you do tranny's" comment for some other time then...:D
 
dude firstly when u wake up in the morning do you have a stiffy?

if you watch porn do you get a stiffy?

when dont you have a stiffy, i mean do you never get one anymore?

alot of times ppl go soft and cant get it up because they are nervous when the time comes, you mind is so powerful even a thought in the back of your mind about your performance will destroy your boner
 
She is probably the problem. Watch some porn and if it gets up, dump her.

Don't ignore this problem as it might affect you for the rest of your life. Go see a urologist so he can test your testosterone levels and what not. Good luck :)
 
Good lordy lord bud. You're 23! I'm 24 and i'm hard just typing this and i'm an old man compared 2 u :)

I dont think theres anything physicaly wrong with you, i think its your mind!! Its clean or something:eek:

Stop taking any booze/drugs or pills that you're taking, get your girlfriend naked look at her for godsake!! Assuming she's atleast mildly attractive if you're not UP and running by then run to a doc ASAP! :confused:
 
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I think he's on Dianabol

I can't see a 23 year old guy not get it up. Stress at 23 ? Who are you kidding ?
It's either something very seriously wrong medicaly speaking or get of the Dianabol
 
Sly21C said:
No Erection!

Hey guys!

I don't know if a similar thread was created or not. And I am actually embarrased to tell you guys this but I guess it's something that we have to talk about it.

I'm 23, my girlfriend and I started having sex 2 months ago, it was great at first and we didn't have problems up until a week ago as I couldn't get it up anymore. I think it could be stress but I'll have to go and see someone.

I've heard that herbs such as Guarana, Ginseng and Ginkgo Biloba are helpful as far as improving blood circulation and increasing one's libido, is this true?

Is going to mens clinic international and asking for their advice the best option? Or is there something else that I can do?

Please help!!!

:(
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Did u forget to use your fake nick?
Best to ask a Dr.
 
Its actually a lot more common than you guys think... like 10% of males between 21-30.
 
The man can't get it up, and the general opinion is "it must be the woman".

Likewise, when a woman is "not in the mood", the problem lies with the man.
 
Sex is about the mind. Just imagine your greatest fantasy, and you really shouldn't be able to keep it down.
 
DJStealth said:
Do you wake up every morning with "morning glory peeping tom"?
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yup, the only time i dont is when its been a heavy night on some sort of drug

even heavy alcohol i wake up with a stiffy

your testosterone is at its highest in the morning as far as i know, hense your stiffy :)
 
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