I forgot our anniverary..

[Jings]

Don't know why you're taking advice from the other guys; you'll just get into more kak. The flowers are a good start. Also tell her you love her and you'll spend the rest of your life making it up to her. And say it like you mean it.
That's what a woman wants to hear.

 

[Arthur]

The flowers are a good start. Also tell her you love her and you'll spend the rest of your life making it up to her. And say it like you mean it.
That's what a woman wants to hear.

Bad advice.

Don't say it if you don't mean it, otherwise you're a lying, manipulating scumbag. "for rest of life" means marriage, otherwise you're a fraud, nor a man, who's few words are more reliable than the sunrise.

Time to stand back and re-evaluate your existence. Man up, start telling the truth, stop this crappy metrosexual mediocrity.

And anniversaries are the annual refresh of your permanent irrevocable lifelong commitment to your woman, not the annual reminder of your kinda hangin' around with someone, breathing in and out unable to make a decision.

A real man has the guts to say what he genuinely thinks and does, not spit out smooth words tailored to what they want to hear. Yours is rotten advice, mate. You lie to women and betray masculinity and manhood. Time to grow up and be a man not a wuss. An essential first step is Be Real.

 

[akescpt]

any update?

 

[STS]

My GF forgot our anniversary once. Well she didn't know it was our anniversary. Well she didn't know she was my GF. Actually I don't even think she knew my name.

restraining order!?! but what about our love!?!

 

[Jings]

Bad advice.

Don't say it if you don't mean it, otherwise you're a lying, manipulating scumbag. "for rest of life" means marriage, otherwise you're a fraud, nor a man, who's few words are more reliable than the sunrise.

Time to stand back and re-evaluate your existence. Man up, start telling the truth, stop this crappy metrosexual mediocrity.

And anniversaries are the annual refresh of your permanent irrevocable lifelong commitment to your woman, not the annual reminder of your kinda hangin' around with someone, breathing in and out unable to make a decision.

A real man has the guts to say what he genuinely thinks and does, not spit out smooth words tailored to what they want to hear. Yours is rotten advice, mate. You lie to women and betray masculinity and manhood. Time to grow up and be a man not a wuss. An essential first step is Be Real.

Firstly, I am not a man. My husband told me he loved me after 2 weeks of going steady. Did I believe it? No, but as a woman emotions (in terms of love) defy logic.
We've been together for 16 years now, ups and downs, but no regrets (so far).

 

[akescpt]

Firstly, I am not a man. My husband told me he loved me after 2 weeks of going steady. Did I believe it? No, but as a woman emotions (in terms of love) defy logic.
We've been together for 16 years now, ups and downs, but no regrets (so far).

yep marriage has alot of ups and downs... just keep working at it..

 

[Jings]

Where's the update?

 

[Arthur]

Firstly, I am not a man. My husband told me he loved me after 2 weeks of going steady. Did I believe it? No, but as a woman emotions (in terms of love) defy logic.
We've been together for 16 years now, ups and downs, but no regrets (so far).

Hehe. I blapsed thinking you were a male person. Sorry!

Yes, women want to hear that men will spend "the rest of their lives" making up for lapses. But I'm sure you'll agree, only if (a) there's a real underlying and express commitment and concomitant obligation, and (b) if it's true, otherwise it's just smooth talk to get some nooky, and that is so weak, deceitful, and unmanly.

My apols, Jingaling, to you in particular!

But I still stand by my words. Addressed to men, of course.

 

[Jings]

Hehe. I blapsed thinking you were a male person. Sorry!

Yes, women want to hear that men will spend "the rest of their lives" making up for lapses. But I'm sure you'll agree, only if (a) there's a real underlying and express commitment and concomitant obligation, and (b) if it's true, otherwise it's just smooth talk to get some nooky, and that is so weak, deceitful, and unmanly.

My apols, Jingaling, to you in particular!

But I still stand by my words. Addressed to men, of course.

No offence taken. And 100% agree with the values and principles you live by.