I forgot our anniverary..

Lycanthrope said:
No, I just mean that "traditionally" it's the guy's job to remember the anniversaries and spoil his girlfriend/wife.

Just saying that in my relationship it has always been mutual so one of us is always likely to remember :)
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u both mos guys so u both do it...mutually
 
EnchanterG said:
Yeah, relationships are 2 way streets, if she knew you were home sick, why no effort from her? ...
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As a lady, I am fully behind this part of EnchanterG's statement.
Relationships are a 2-way street. Anniversaries aren't about the guy spoiling the girl. It's not just his responsibility. I make a lot of effort on my anniversary to spoil my hubby, not the other way around. However, he hasn't ever forgotten, and if he did, I certainly wouldn't sit around "waiting for him to remember" so that I can be mad at him, because that benefits nobody and only causes animosity.

I would remind him by way of a "Happy Anniversary" from my side. She didn't call you either, dude.
 
Pho3nix said:
Damn..just realized today is Wednesday so YAY..thought it was our anniversart but looked at the date and it's the 20th :erm::wtf:. Damnmit. Called my SO to apologise and she acted like it was all good. She thought I was at home messing around yesterday while I was infact heavily medicated and in bed.

Know for a face that she is pissed and we have had our issues as of late and I think this will add to it. Solutions guys? Going to send a bunch of flowers to her house tomorrow with her fav choclate and I'll see her as soon as I'm well enough to get out of bed. In the mean time any of you guys been through this. Got any idea's of how to smoothen this over? Really dug myself into a hole here... :(
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Couch for you boy :mad: :D
 
abzo said:
So you like women that are childish in other ways? :wtf:
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Haha, I knew that would come up. I don't mean childish as in young in age, but frequently young at heart. Better?
 
AniV said:
As a lady, I am fully behind this part of EnchanterG's statement.
Relationships are a 2-way street. Anniversaries aren't about the guy spoiling the girl. It's not just his responsibility. I make a lot of effort on my anniversary to spoil my hubby, not the other way around. However, he hasn't ever forgotten, and if he did, I certainly wouldn't sit around "waiting for him to remember" so that I can be mad at him, because that benefits nobody and only causes animosity.

I would remind him by way of a "Happy Anniversary" from my side. She didn't call you either, dude.
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i think my wife expects me to organize something for the anniversary. dont mind really but it just seems the onus is always on the guy...
 
I used to go out of my way for my ex on our anniversary. From her side i would get a chocolate or something. He excuse was that she had no money as she was studying.
****ing glad that is over!
 
ISP cash cow said:
I always forget my anniversary and I have been married 16 years, it's ok though because my wife also forgets about it.

We not big into the whole lets remember the day we married thing. I love my wife and married her to be with her and I don't need to "count the days" of how long I have done it for. <= my view point and probably lucky that my wife feels the same way otherwise I would be in huge kak every year :D
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give this man a bells
 
Aren't there 2 equal people in the relationship?
How come anniversaries and birthdays have become tests how much a man appreciates a woman?
In our home there are always some reminders before the date and on the day it is simply a matter who mentions it first. A kiss, a hug, well-wishes, no flowers, no gifts, although we usually go out for dinner to some place we haven't been before.
 
Maybe the OP is having a relationship at an old age home and Alzheimers has set in.
 
The_Unnamed said:
I used to go out of my way for my ex on our anniversary. From her side i would get a chocolate or something. He excuse was that she had no money as she was studying.
****ing glad that is over!
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You sound needy.for anniversaries whatever a man wants, he takes.
;)
 
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