I'm Freaking out :(

gdiza said:
hahaha... yesterday I was horribly bored bru, you have no idea... taking the piss outta ya situation kept me going all day, and I think, kept a few of us going. I'm sure you know that, besides 'trying to be funny' - nothing else was meant by it.

But you know what was the funniest, was when you were typing messages 'under the influence of drugs or whatever'

I cried laughing reading your posts... my GF thought I was nuts!!!!!!!! Then she started threading the thread from the beginning and when she starting laughing, well, she found all the funny posts :)

She said "if this guy lived close to you nick, he would've bliksemd you long ago - you and the other few" :D
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lol... dude... I seriously couldn't remember writting those messages, I just came across them and thought to myself "OMG... someone has my login details" but then small pieces of it came crashing back, haha... It's actually funny :)
 
So wait ...

Pitball is big ... you're even bigger ... and your boyfriend is bigger than both of you?
 
gdiza said:
He didn't sort it out - we just know that his partner lies really well.

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OK OK! FaNIX, you can deck me... lol :)

I-i-i-i-i-i-m S-o-o-r-r-r-y <--- Stuttering after being klapped :D
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Well maybe they can sort it out, either break up and move on or give it one more try.

PPPPffffftttt.........and we all know you are not sorry.........................:rolleyes:
 
FaNIX said:
lol... dude... I seriously couldn't remember writting those messages, I just came across them on thought "OMG... someone has my login details" but then small pieces of it came crashing back, haha... It's actually funny :)
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I've come onto MyBB when I've been drunk (after a night out) and I skim through the posts and then come up with the funniest replies.

They so funny, I can't even type them because I'm laughing too much just thinking about them... then I just pass out ;)

lol!
 
Pitbull said:
sigh,

Fanix why is it that whenever one of your loved ones go abroad they get laid by someone else ? Are you doing something wrong ?


Seriously, relax. What ever happened if any at all happened. If you probe for it you will find it. Rather just let it go and there will be nothing to find ;) Just my advice tbh. If you want to know you will prob find out, break up and end up alone :( But if that is what you want, that is what you will get.
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This message made me see things in a clear sense. If I wasn't so snoopy, I wouldn't have known all this crap, and things would just have been...
 
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gdiza said:
I've come onto MyBB when I've been drunk (after a night out) and I skim through the posts and then come up with the funniest replies.

They so funny, I can't even type them because I'm laughing too much just thinking about them... then I just pass out ;)

lol!
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I thought it was the tea, because tea can do that to you. :D
 
Dolby said:
So wait ...

Pitball is big ... you're even bigger ... and your boyfriend is bigger than both of you?
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Well, I'm a short ass, but built :) I haven't seen any pictures of Pitbull, so can't comment there, but my boyfriend is a GIANT... His big :)
 
FaNIX said:
This message made me see things in a clear sense. If I wasn't so snoopy, I wouldn't have known all this crap, and things would just have been... Somethings it's best to leave things as it is, I to have my secrets, yes... believe it or not, I also did something terrible a couple of months ago, but it didn't change my feeling towards him, and I still love him very much...

I hope he doesn't read this, then I have to come clean :o
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FaNIX, you know my girlfriend has gone (even though shes back for a month) to Germany for a year!!!!!!!!!

I only found out about 1 guy so far who 'tried' his luck with her.

Now you can imagine how I must feel... she's beautiful, I have to put up with this shyte for the next year... I just make a joke outta it... keep on laughing about it because there is not much I can do.

I will NOT demand she stays away from guys or stuff like that, i want her to go out and make friends, even guys, I just want her to be happy.

How I get through it each day is keep myself busy... 1 year... boy oh boy! :)

Maybe start a thread ? ;)
 
I won't be able to be apart from my partner for 1 year, that's insane... But I truly hope it works out for you 2. In 3 hours my boyfriend gets on the plane, and I can't wait. Things are a bit wierd between us, but I've managed to get past this in the past, it only lasts a day or two. And being our first Christmas together, I hope its a good one.
 
Apparently my mother called me this morning and asked me if I was okay? I was like "WTF.. what do you mean" and she said that she called me yesterday and I sounded drunk? :|

It was very wierd, for some reason the stilnox didn't knock me out... I think my emotions was to overpowering... But when I think back know, I can only lough, but deep down I still there is still alot to sort out... and it scares me...
 
When you uploading pictures of you and your BF?

So we can see this happy couple? (happy, minus this thread of cause)
 
gdiza said:
When you uploading pictures of you and your BF?

So we can see this happy couple? (happy, minus this thread of cause)
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lol... I wish I could do that, I don't mind showing it to known members, like yourself, but not to everyone :)
 
FaNIX said:
Regarding Spying on him, God, I've done it all, and you get to a point where you just don;t have the energy to do it anymore. I've had a keylogger on his PC, one I wrote myself, and it mails me everything, and thats when I first found out that he had online profiles, but I intervened before anything actually happened.
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If i was dating u and i found out you were doing this, i would dump u in a heart beat and not look back. Its seriously psychotic to be going to this leel to spy on your boyfriend. Writing keylogger programmees??WTf??? If u dont have the trust then ur relationship is dead. If u cant honestly forgive him for cheating at the start of the relationship, then its over. Everytime u fight, ur gonna bring it up, everytime u see a movie with a couple cheating, ur both gonna be thinking about the incident. In my opinion, once someone has cheated, the relationshop is toast....
 
tau1z said:
If i was ... the relationshop is toast....
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Dude, when people get hurt alot, and I don't mean once or twice, I mean, alot, then stuff like this is normal for 'some' of us.

I've even considered doing it to ex's but at the same time, I trusted them.

People handle situations differently than most.

If his BF sees this, he might be upset, but he might also be happy that FaNIX cares enough to worry and ask for support etc.

Pointless JUDGING him... I've been through alot and I see that maybe he has too.

Sometimes, the relationship has it's bad spots at the start, in the middle or end.
 
But having said what I just said.

I love these people who post their opinons on threads like this and when you get to know them, you know that they are judging their opinons on what they think they'll do and not from actual experience.

(This is aimed at 'some' of you - not the collective)

"Oh, I've been cheated on too" and then you dig and found out it's only happened "once" and stuff like that.

I'm 25, I've been through more woman than toliet paper (slight exaggeration but Risa can back me up on this!)... talk to me again when you actually know what the phuck you are talking about.

:D
 
tau1z said:
If i was dating u and i found out you were doing this, i would dump u in a heart beat and not look back. Its seriously psychotic to be going to this leel to spy on your boyfriend. Writing keylogger programmees??WTf??? If u dont have the trust then ur relationship is dead. If u cant honestly forgive him for cheating at the start of the relationship, then its over. Everytime u fight, ur gonna bring it up, everytime u see a movie with a couple cheating, ur both gonna be thinking about the incident. In my opinion, once someone has cheated, the relationshop is toast....
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I see a relationship as an investment... If you put everything you have, everything you own into something, then you want to protect that... I did what I had to do in order to see if I was investing into something that wasn't going to work. He knows all about this, and seriously, people who have a problem with their partners going through their phones, or looking at their email, means that they have something to hide! A relationship should be open in every way, I was at a point where I couldn't take his word for things, I couldn't handle the fact of being lied to and taken for a ride. And guess what, If it wasn't for that, we wouldn't have been together today. He would have cheated and ****ed me around and I would have left him... By forecasting what was going to happened I managed to prevent it, and it saved our relationship... Don't you DARE try and judge me without knowing all the facts... You might have your own opinion of this, and you might have dumped me if that was you, but I guess what, if it was me, I wouldn't have dated you!

I'm positive that a lot of people can relate to me on this thread... We as people are so scared of being alone, and in most cases people break up because of their dignity after a partner cheated, but somethings it just happens, and sometimes it's not worth breaking up, because It would have been several factors that lead your partner into doing this. Being gay makes it harder, most gay men don't respect other's relationships, and that makes it so much harder... I guess it comes down to weighting the ups and downs, and deciding if it's worth pursuing the relationship...in my case it was!
 
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gdiza said:
I'm 25, I've been through more woman than toliet paper (slight exaggeration but Risa can back me up on this!)... talk to me again when you actually know what the phuck you are talking about.
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So because you have been through a boat load of woman makes u an expert on relationships? By definition that would make prostitutes excellent relationship therapists. I posted my opinion based on what was said? perhaps it should be taken with a bit of thought, becuase on my experience, it seems that once trust is gone, and u over step that boundry, it tends to lead to a destructive relationship. I am sure that is not always the case...but i reckon its heavily weighed in that direction.
 
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