Inet dating....

Carol35

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Whilst the guy is a douchebag your pal needs to be more savvy if she intends to play with fire. Or she will just get burnt, rinse and repeat.
She doesn't intend to play with fire...she just wants to meet new people and get out there. She is not very clued up with internet dating and nor am I so cant help her all the time.

Lol, this is not me nor my husband..If it happened to me, I would not be ashamed to admit it..my friend didn't do anything wrong.
and really, just because I don't wear a wedding ring, doesn't mean that my marriage is in trouble.

Anyhow, just got a message that he has finally seen fit to apologise this morning and my friend asked that I edited his name from my post so have done so. If anyone else feels they want to and he maybe has learned a lesson, they can do so as well.

Lol, not sure which Dros it happened at but imagine since she lives in Bellville, was in that area!
 

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im not sure if this was said but some sick people out there get kicks from things like that

act as if the wife caught him
what?? serious?? you mean like the wife wasn't really his wife but someone else who beat up my friend for his kicks???
Grief..no ways!! haha.
 

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what?? serious?? you mean like the wife wasn't really his wife but someone else who beat up my friend for his kicks???
Grief..no ways!! haha.

maybe it was his wife

and they go out on "dates"

and yeah for kicks

and if she is hot alot of guys here want or need dates
 

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*sigh* sometimes I'm amazed at how childish people are. AND IM THE BIGGEST KID OF THEM ALL. Yet I don't spend my time or energy on revenge or hate or whatever.
 

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*sigh* sometimes I'm amazed at how childish people are. AND IM THE BIGGEST KID OF THEM ALL. Yet I don't spend my time or energy on revenge or hate or whatever.

true ...you such an angel compared to the rest
 

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Anyhow, just got a message that he has finally seen fit to apologise this morning and my friend asked that I edited his name from my post so have done so. If anyone else feels they want to and he maybe has learned a lesson, they can do so as well.

Did you mention to him that you publicly outed him as a cheater on a forum?
 

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She doesn't intend to play with fire...she just wants to meet new people and get out there. She is not very clued up with internet dating and nor am I so cant help her all the time.

It has nothing to do with where/how she meets her dates. You can't run out into the world an innocent little lamb and not expect to get slaughtered.
 

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Did you mention to him that you publicly outed him as a cheater on a forum?
Yes, we messaged him on Friday if no apology was forth-coming, we will be outing him. He apologized this morning afaik as yesterday she messaged me and said she had heard nothing. All he had to do was apologise. How could he ignore that he tried to cheat, his wife acted like a crazed lunatic and think that that's ok and just get on with life. Its NOT ok!

And Acid, really...it may be childish or "revengy", but hopefully it will deter him in future, rather leave a marriage if you want to play the field. A lot of people land up being hurt when someone cheats.
 

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*sigh* sometimes I'm amazed at how childish people are. AND IM THE BIGGEST KID OF THEM ALL. Yet I don't spend my time or energy on revenge or hate or whatever.

yeah, so shut up Mr "i want to kill myself, i want attention, black people will pay and i have an extra account nobody knows of" :p :D

back to your corner :D
 

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It has nothing to do with where/how she meets her dates. You can't run out into the world an innocent little lamb and not expect to get slaughtered.
Shaun, I don't understand?

Is it not simply a case of seeing a profile you may like, being honest, not putting 15 year old pictures of yourself (she says this happens a lot), not claiming to be single when you are not etc.? whats the point of lying when you know you can eventually be caught out if you actually land up liking the person and wanting to spend more time with them? It doesn't make sense!
 

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Shaun, I don't understand?

Is it not simply a case of seeing a profile you may like, being honest, not putting 15 year old pictures of yourself (she says this happens a lot), not claiming to be single when you are not etc.? whats the point of lying when you know you can eventually be caught out if you actually land up liking the person and wanting to spend more time with them? It doesn't make sense!

Exactly, people can lie in person just as easily as they can online
 

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Maybe they role play and your friend got caught up in their game?

Jealous wife and make up sex?

Most likely not but...... there are some weird folk out there.
 

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yeah exactly what i was thinking

get the high from causing a disturbance and then going home and furked up make up sex
 
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