Is she cheating????

I haven't read most of the posts but here's some adivse.
Confront her about the emails you've seen and the sms's, be honest about seeing them and tell her the truth, if you already haven't that is. Explain to her that you still want her even after what she's done, try to make her feel guilty, though not so that she will come back to you JUST out of guilt. Find out if she really loves you...truely! Or maybe you can speak to the guy she is supposedly cheating on you with. Maybe he doesn't know she's with someone.

Well that's my advice, I don't speak from experience and I'm not and expert on relationships.
 
You getting played dude! Thats the plain hard truth! Why would you want her back?

You getting played HARD!!!!!! She doesnt care for you like you do her.

Sorry to be so blunt, but its the truth!

Best way to get over a woman, is to get on top of another one :D
 
So many people are cheating nowadays, it doesn't surprise me anymore. I've seen and heard everything before, no relationship or story can shock me. The things I can tell you about my experiences with past and present partners would shock the living hell out of you!

That being said, it's easy for others to say "Get right of the #####", but the truth is that no matter what other people say, YOU and only you can make that decision. You may feel like trying to make this relationship work, and if thats the case, then you should. If things doesn't change, then after time you will get enough courage to break things off and move on with your life. Do not break things off if you feel you can't handle a breakup right now, because that will destroy you, and you will be miserable for a few months, rather wait until you feel that you are ready to close this chapter and move on.

It's a very painful thing to go through, personally it's the worth thing for me to go through, as I'm very fragile when dealing with these kind of stuff. But the truth is, you will always find someone else, and you might go through the same thing again, and again, and in my case, AGAIN! :)
 
Hi folks, thanks once again for all your advice and comments (much appreciated).
Here is what an update of what took place since I last posted here:

So, I did use my other number to sms this guy that I know all his shady business he's doing with 'my' GF and I will print all the stuff and post it to his GF and the folks should he not stop doing all this nonsense.

It was on a Sunday and the guy called 'my' GF immediately after U sent him the sms. I was there while they were talking on the phone and I could sense that the guy was really scared and 'my' GF was like trying to calm him down saying that she knows exactly who sent that.

After the call, she confronted me and I never denied it. We had one of those arguments and she took her stuff and bounced! Well, she only left late at around past 8 - 9 pm. But she didn’t want me to take her to the campus and it’s like 15kms away from my place. Infact, I wrestled her bags (3) out of her hands and took them to the car. While I was doing that she left running with a school bag.

I drove the car and spent about 2 hours looking for her all over but I couldn’t find her. I was really scared!!! After I was just about to give up, I came back to my place and found her on my door. I had already taken all her stuff back to campus (I have the key/access to her place).

I told her that she wasn’t sleeping here cause instead of we talk about this situation she only fights with me!! I mean, she was angry that why did I send the darn sms!!! At around midnight, I decided to let it go and go to sleep (we slept together....just sleeping, ok).

The following day, I went to work and came back in the afternoon cause I was just too stressed. I went to her place and tried to see if we can talk about it but she was still not willing to. So, we let it go and pretend as if nothing had happened.

Last weekend, on a Sunday (again), we had an argument and I made sure that I revisit this issue again. Since she was still not willing to talk about him, I gave her a BOOT!!! I took her and threw her in the boot, oops, car and sped off! Man, she tried to attract attention buy trying to get off the car while the car was moving!! She did this 3 times and I had to stop the car in the middle of the road to chase her!!! Luckily it was at around midnight so there weren’t any traffic.

Eventually we got to her place and I stop the car, went to the boot to offload her stuff and the darn woman refused to get off the car!!! There was security there so I didn’t wanna cause a scene. So, I went back to the car and asked her whats up, then she started talking........

According to her, she has never slept with this guy.
She only wanted to make ne jealous and actually make me pay for treating her badly.
She didnt think that this was gonna get out of hand as it did (though her friend tells me that she warned her that things can get ugly).
This damn guy was so scared cause when he tried to call that number I sent an sms from - it went to her GF's number (I diverted the calls). So he was asking of I did IT or something cause he almost wet his pants thinking that somehow his GF found out.
She is sorry for involving this guy - I said it serves him well for snooping around with other peoples affairs!!!
She stopped all those emails after I sent this guy an sms (3 weeks now).
Even the kinky sms have stopped and so did the calls every now and again!

I asked her what she really wants?

She says she needs to think clearly about it over the June holidays - fair enough for me.
Even though she still do love me , she is scared that I will hurt her (I have been really moody since this guy came into our lives) - I told her that if she wants me, then she must get rid of this guy, PERIOD!!!

So, this is all I can feedback at the moment, but I have a feeling that next time I will be saying "We decide to go our separate ways". I think I also need time on my own to think about this with her being around. So, she is leaving on the 19th of June coming back on the 15th of July.

Currently we live just like friends and have some ordinary 'friends' conversations. Oh, we aren't friends with benefits ok! Till next time.
 
You are getting played!!!!!!!!!!! No doubt! Im sure the sms's hasnt stopped.

Give her the boot. Whats so hard?
 
Maelly said:
I thought he said he did???
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Since she was still not willing to talk about him, I gave her a BOOT!!! I took her and threw her in the boot, oops, car and sped off! Man, she tried to attract attention buy trying to get off the car while the car was moving!! She did this 3 times and I had to stop the car in the middle of the road to chase her!!! Luckily it was at around midnight so there weren’t any traffic.
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@CheesB. This is funny. I can just imagine how sacred your girlfriend's boyfriend (not you) was.:D
But after what you just did, i don't think it's worth going back to.
I have this feeling you are unhealthily obsessed with her. Like I always say (unfortunately nobody listens to me), biatches come and go.
**** off while you still have some little pride man. OMG :eek:
 
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your being played for a chump.

dont even waste your time on someone like that.

if people cant get along then it shouldnt be. for her to even consider doing the psycho things she has done, you should just leave her but by the sounds of things your not going to leave her and this will end in tragedy.

my 2c.
 
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