Is she worth pursuing?

[Vox Populi Vox Dei]

Ok here is the situation...

I have matric dance coming up pretty soon (22nd of August) and I want to invite this girl...but there are complications...

1) I wrote on her Facebook "wall" about 3 days asking how she was etc...and she hasn't replied despite her being on Facebook (I know that because of her status message updates)

2) About 2 months ago, she didn't reply to one my of sms's about having coffee. (I didn't resend the sms).

So do you think I should even try and invite her...or not.

 

[Surv0]

NOT - if she hasnt taken the time to get back to you, move on, chicks can be meen like that

 

[Scooby_Doo]

What about face to face contact, does she give you the time of day? Prob not though.

 

[4cer]

from whta you've said.. no.

trust e if girls even like you a lil bit they'll make an effort..

so you have two options, either she is just a complete bitch, and maybe would still say yes, but can't imagine wanting to go with someone like that.. or two she has no interest in you? even gals that are your friend will give you something

 

[Ecco]

sounds like its going nowhere.

 

[Vox Populi Vox Dei]

What about face to face contact, does she give you the time of day? Prob not though.

Not really. I saw at her at a club last night but let's say she was quite involved in conversation with one of her lady friends...

 

[Debbie]

Ask her. No normal chick will say no to a matric dance invite. Just be aware that if she accepts, it doesn't necessarily mean she's into you.

 

[blunomore]

Do you guys ever talk (in real life, not on FB and via SMS)?

If yes, how does she respond to you? Friendly, aloof, rude?

If she pointedly ignored you twice, she is either not interested in you (but does not have the social skills to let you down gently) or she is just plain rude.

Speaking as a woman, I think it is important that girls understand that it does take some courage for a man to ask you out and the least you can do, is respond in a kind, decent manner - even if your answer is no.

 

[Scooby_Doo]

Not really. I saw at her at a club last night but let's say she was quite involved in conversation with one of her lady friends...

Well then... Thats a no in my books.

 

[Mephisto_Helix]

Not really. I saw at her at a club last night but let's say she was quite involved in conversation with one of her lady friends...

no 'interest' even in real life ........ no invite bru. Seriously, take some other lady.

 

[Vox Populi Vox Dei]

Ask her. No normal chick will say no to a matric dance invite. Just be aware that if she accepts, it doesn't necessarily mean she's into you.

Yeah obviously . Most people go to a matric dance without having a 'proper' girlfriend. This is not really for relationship purposes, even though I'd like it to be that way .

 

[Scooby_Doo]

Even if you fell into firendly territory you would have got a hug or a hello or atleast a wave, but nothing... No move on.

 

[Surv0]

Yup agreed - dont pursue unless you want to seem desperate.
Theres hundreds of girls out there that would appreciate your invite - maybe some1 on this board?

 

[Vox Populi Vox Dei]

Ha, I think I'll just ring up my (girl) cousin who has lots of hot friends. Thanks for the advice

 

[Pitbull]

Post a pic and I'll tell you if you should or should not

of her ofc

 

[Mephisto_Helix]

while it's perfectly fine to take your female cousin, just remember, no making out at the end of the evening .......

 

[PostmanPot]

www.conservativedating.co.za.

 

[Vox Populi Vox Dei]

Post a pic and I'll tell you if you should or should not

of her ofc

She has almost model looks...

 

[Waaib]

I'd say take a chance. She can only say yes or no. Expect her to say no and if she says yes you'll be stoked.

 

[Pitbull]

She has almost model looks...

Doesn't count for shyt

You get fugly models.... I need to see a pic and judge for myself