Ive been Rejected

Usher (yeah) said:
I think i agree with many responses here that this one is not for me i should just let go. But how do i close this issue, MAYBE call her and say what??
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Easy, phone her up:

"Hey how you?"
*some arb response, if she doesn't ask how you are back then don't make anything of it, but it means she's not interested*
"A couple of friends and I are going to the movies and I figured you to be a [insert movie genre / movie here] and was wondering if you'd like to join us"

a) Make it true, so get a couple of friends together to go for a movie, that way if she says know you say "Cool maybe next time, ciao"
b) You enjoy a night out yourself, if she'd like to tag along fine
c) You show she's only a friend to you no biggie

You immediately stop with the SMS's. No need for you to SMS her anything. Make any and all conversation (as much as humanly possible) in person. Otherwise, phone calls (but keep it minimal)

Cut yourself off from her as much as possible except for the friendship. Let her come to you/ask you how you are etc. And extend the one or two invitations to her if you go to social occassions.
 
AcidRaZor said:
Easy, phone her up:

"Hey how you?"
*some arb response, if she doesn't ask how you are back then don't make anything of it, but it means she's not interested*
"A couple of friends and I are going to the movies and I figured you to be a [insert movie genre / movie here] and was wondering if you'd like to join us"

a) Make it true, so get a couple of friends together to go for a movie, that way if she says know you say "Cool maybe next time, ciao"
b) You enjoy a night out yourself, if she'd like to tag along fine
c) You show she's only a friend to you no biggie

You immediately stop with the SMS's. No need for you to SMS her anything. Make any and all conversation (as much as humanly possible) in person. Otherwise, phone calls (but keep it minimal)

Cut yourself off from her as much as possible except for the friendship. Let her come to you/ask you how you are etc. And extend the one or two invitations to her if you go to social occassions.
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Didn't actually read your post but, whatever.....




alcohol...
 
NightShadow said:
:) you guys make it sound like all women are evil.

Anywayz good luck Usher. You'll find someone for you!
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They are. Not many women have proven themselves to me in a sense that they won't do or say to protect themselves in any manner possible.

What I love (read sarcasm) about women is how they think they spare a guy's feelings if they "let him down easy".

Ahu.

They treat us like other women. WHY!! :p I don't get my period.... but I do have PMS. Strange

*cry*

I hate you!
 
Nerhzelok said:
Really? Never happens to me.
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Yup really, and I'm pretty sure if I say "BAD BREAKUP" your mind will immediately go to the first memory of the worst breakup you've had with a woman. You'd be able to remember how she smells like, what was said, how she looked like. How you felt like. And for an instance those feelings will come back.

Me? Hell, they're lucky if I remember their names.
 
AcidRaZor said:
They are. Not many women have proven themselves to me in a sense that they won't do or say to protect themselves in any manner possible.

What I love (read sarcasm) about women is how they think they spare a guy's feelings if they "let him down easy".

Ahu.

They treat us like other women. WHY!! :p I don't get my period.... but I do have PMS. Strange

*cry*

I hate you!
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Amen to that! I just wish they would tell it like it is instead of the "let him down easy business"...if its a spade, call it exactly that! No funny business, esp because guys think too much and turn to over-analyse things...thats what i read somewhere
 
I wonder if our creater thought it'd be really funny if he made men & women need/want each other - but create our brains totally, totally different and opposite?

He watches us and 'relationships' are all a joke to him :/
 
Dolby said:
I wonder if our creater thought it'd be really funny if he made men & women need/want each other - but create our brains totally, totally different and opposite?

He watches us and 'relationships' are all a joke to him :/
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If I were him I would. He has eternity. Would get boring huh?
 
Classic thread ....It has all the makings of a great soapie!

Love, Romance, Alcohol (Methanol), Rejection, Backdrop (University), Religion, Music, Poetry .......

Oh you wanted advice ... Drop her, get drunk, rent a pro, get over her, move on....
 
You know what, if I made advances on a woman and she turned me down then it's her tough luck. I move on, klaar. I'm not gonna flog a dead horse and waste my time.

That being said I don't fuss about a woman either, I don't allow myself to get deep feelings for a woman until I know her.
 
cerebus said:
You don't love this girl....you're temporarily infatuated with her and frustrated because she's rejecting you which makes you inflate the magnitude of your feelings for her. Conversely she thinks your playa mxit chatroom act is ludicrous and frankly she would never dream of going out with you.
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I haven't read the rest of the thread, but ...

What cerebus said.
 
AcidRaZor said:
They are. Not many women have proven themselves to me in a sense that they won't do or say to protect themselves in any manner possible.

What I love (read sarcasm) about women is how they think they spare a guy's feelings if they "let him down easy".

Ahu.

They treat us like other women. WHY!! :p I don't get my period.... but I do have PMS. Strange

*cry*

I hate you!
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Oh please you guys bitch no matter what we do.

If she had told the guy straight out she doesn't want to shag him and has no feelings for him. She would still be considered a bitch. We simply can't win.

And please get over yourselves with your immature statements about all women being evil. Up your standards if you keep dealing with twits.
 
JUGGY said:
You know what, if I made advances on a woman and she turned me down then it's her tough luck. I move on, klaar. I'm not gonna flog a dead horse and waste my time.

That being said I don't fuss about a woman either, I don't allow myself to get deep feelings for a woman until I know her.
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True now i see its a just a flippen waste of precious time. previously i was all about the chase but hey u know what, no more. She will just have to eat my dust, because im a gonner:)
 
Jase said:
Classic thread ....It has all the makings of a great soapie!

Love, Romance, Alcohol (Methanol), Rejection, Backdrop (University), Religion, Music, Poetry .......

Oh you wanted advice ... Drop her, get drunk, rent a pro, get over her, move on....
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Like sands through the hour glass, so are the Days of our Lives! seriously must say it took a lot not to call her last, but as compared to how i was feeling on saturday, MUCH better.
 
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